How do I( 25F) get over my anxiety of initiating sex with my BF (M26)

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For context my (F25) bf(m26) and i have been together for 5 years and some months now. We have no kids and we live together. I’m working and in school and he’s in school but not working right now. We have had issues off and on through our relationship and now we are in a better place. The problem now is he feels as thought i’m not enthusiastic about sex because i’m not the one initiating it. We’ve talked about it and he’s told me what he likes but whenever the time arises for me to initiate i get nervous and back out. I’ve never had to before in past relationships, it was always my partners that took charge and didn’t mind that i did not. When we have sex it is great but its not often enough. Any ideas on how I can start initiating?