We’ve soon been together for 5 months. I think we have had sex 5 times during this period. It seems like our sex drives are misaligned, and it is starting to bother me. Most nights she is quick at tucking herself into the duvet and she is not interested in any sort of physical touch. She does like spooning some times, but that is about it. But the lack of intimacy and physical touch is getting to me.
I want to ask her about this, and find out if there are any specific reasons for this or if I have said or done anything that has made her uncomfortable. I don’t want to come off as rude or make her feel pressured because I love this girl, but don’t really know how to address and talk about this in a mature and caring way. How could I bring this up and formulate myself?
TL;DR: lack of sex and intimacy in my relationship is bothering me. Need help on how to bring this topic up and talk about it in a good way.