TL;DR My boyfriend wanted to take a break because he felt I am unhappy in the relationship after expressing my feelings to him.
I recently told him that I feel like we’re more than friends with benefits rather than gf/bf. He was generally confused why I felt that way, he said I’ve met basically his family and friends but he’s never met anyone that is closed to me. We’ve only been dating for 3 months btw. Only reason he hasn’t met my parents is because I wasn’t too sure how serious he was about me.
Yes I’ve met all the important people in his life but I don’t feel the love from him because he’s not affectionate or romantic. We could spend the whole day together and he’ll never touch me except when we’re in bed. He doesn’t hug me or kiss me as much, when we’re apart he never tells me such things such as “I miss you”. He told me he could never show affectionate or romantic side of him because he’s not that of person.
I didn’t know that expressing what I felt would lead to him wanting a break.
I feel like taking a break was necessary but I miss him and he’ll be leaving the country for two week enjoying his vacation while I’m here struggling to make sense of what happened. I don’t think we’ll be together again. I just want advice on how I can move on asap after dating someone for 3 months this.
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Hey don’t think so much. Take a break and talk to him after his vacation