I (16M) have a crush on a girl in my class, a pretty serious one and we recently started talking and got quite connected but I would like to elevate(?, not sure if that’s the correct word for it) the friendship a bit. I want to hang out with her after school but don’t know how. Rn for all I know her only close friends are girls and she only hangs out with them so I feel like it would be weird as a guy, also I don’t really know places here, we both come from foreign countries and study in an international school but I live pretty far from everything (about a 20-30 min drive) so I don’t know any places to go to. I don’t even know how to ask her, I’m pretty introverted and have had to use the help of people on reddit to even approach her in the first place (I used to be very socially awkward and someone in my previous post helped me a lot with being more social and gaining friends which also led to us talking). I should also mention that since this is a foreign country I do not speak the local language but she does since she lived here for years. How would u recommend me to ask her to hang out?
How do I ask her to hang out?
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Since you’ve already started talking and feel a connection, that’s a great first step. Maybe you could start by mentioning something fun happening after school or on the weekend. You could say something like, “Hey, I’ve been wanting to explore more around here since we’re both new. Would you be interested in hanging out sometime?” This way, it feels casual and gives her the chance to suggest some places she likes!