How do I deal with this?

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Hey everyone, for the last weeks i have been talking to this beautiful girl i really like (15F) while im 16M, however, as always, i feel insecure about my looks. She’s the prettiest girl i ve ever seen and i feel like i have no chance even tho she has shown slight interest in me, its something i cant get off my mind, im about to meet her in 2 days and im nervous about it. I have tried with multiple girls but failed cause of my looks, i know a few bad interactions shouldn’t make me think every girl is like that, but i cant shake off the emotional rollercoaster im going through. Words cant describe how much i feel for her, any advice?

Thank you.

Comments

  1. fizzwhispr Avatar

    Bro you’re 16, no one’s peaking right now. If she’s down to meet, she clearly likes something about you confidence goes way further than looks anyway. Be chill, be yourself, and don’t let past Ls mess with your head. You got this.

  2. sassy-lady01 Avatar

    It’s totally normal to feel nervous and insecure, especially when you really like someone. But if she’s shown interest, that means she sees something in you that she likes don’t dismiss that. Just be yourself, be kind, and enjoy the moment. Confidence isn’t about looks, it’s about how you carry yourself. You’ve got this.

  3. CockroachRude4019 Avatar

    Hey dude, chill. Y’know what’s sexier than a pretty face? Confidence. Trust me, she’s probs as nervous as you. Just treat her right, make her laugh, be yourself, and boom! You’re already a winner. FYI everyone’s got their own insecurities, even the ‘prettiest girl’. Give it a shot mate, you got this! 💪🏽👍🏽