For context this one guy I’m “friends” with (we only have talked about games during class or on discord) and never gotten close close. One a few times we’ve opened up to each other being vulnerable like crying or something but that’s rarely and he would always respond to my vulnerability with “that’s rough” while I was always the one reassuring him with comfort. Recently, ever since he got my discord a few months ago since January, he always says good morning good night EVERY DAY and it’s to a point I don’t have the energy to respond anymore.
I’ve just been done with this bull crap and told him I deleted discord (bc he doesn’t have iPhone so he couldn’t ask for my number) and his following attempts to talk to me are emailing me on my school email, which when he asked if I saw it I told him in person that I don’t check, and today he proceeds to walk to where me and my friends sit and sat down next to me like nothing is going on. I tried to leave to class but he just follows me like a lost dog and then leaves once I arrive. He might continue doing this I’m not sure but I for sure don’t want that to happen ever again since I thought my friends were like a shield from no outsiders coming to talk to me. This is the same guy that thought I was “lonely” because I was sitting alone in class and took pity (but I got friends unlike you bro 😭).
He also hugs his girl friends and just has a lot of friends that are girls, even constantly shows me texts of him and one girl dming each other. So I know he has friends but why is he just talking to me so much?? My attempts to get him to stop was say I was interested in a guy (a fake guy) and would say “sorry I was calling him so I couldn’t talk”. But that didn’t work so I guess he’s really desperate for a friend. He has no academic life too so I’m just busy with homework while he texts away and sends me YouTube shorts.
So in summary, I need advice or if anyone has had the same situation because I’m sick and tired of this. I don’t even think he likes me he just thinks I’m his “best friend” but I consider a best friend to have my back always and he isn’t doing that, just talks about himself most of the time. So now I’m stuck because I can’t tell him to stop talking to me since I don’t want anymore drama in senior year. Even though we are leaving in two months that’s two months too long. So please leave your advice or I might just have to deal with this till graduation 💀🙏
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Sounds like person takes a lot of energy to deal with
This is hard to read in it’s massive format but I think block would serve you well