So hi I’m 19(f) and very very much love women, but this one guys keeps coming back and asking if we can do the devil’s tango… I keep saying no… Repeatedly… Every single time… How the hell do I get him to take a damn hint and stop asking, he’s a good friend but atp I’m so tired and done I’m ready to just throw away everything and block him, only worry is we live in the same area and he knows where I live. I’m also so done bc at one point I did say yes but that was last year and we didn’t even get that far, I stopped him right when he tried kissing me and that was that now he keeps asking me and not taking no for answer.
Please any advice will help cause I’m so done and idk what to do atp.
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That’s rough. Since he knows where you live, telling him directly and firmly that if he asks again you’ll consider it harassment might help? Have you tried that?
A “good friend” would respect your no the first time. Block him completely.
Cut him off; no one who truly respects you needs more than one no. If he keeps asking, he’s not confused, he’s just hoping you’ll cave and that’s not friendship, it’s manipulation in disguise.
Just cut him off and if he keeps being a pain, sic the police on him. He sounds like a creep and sometimes with guys like that it takes outside forces to get him to see the truth. I’m sorry you’re going through this, but I’d just cut everything off and walk away.
at this point you have tried nice so you can get a little nasty. “If I ever had any intention of dating men, your bugging me has convinced me to stick to women”
That’s sexual harassment