Title says, I (23M) need advice on learning how to last longer. Even a few stroke is enough to get me off. What can I do to improve this?
Title says, I (23M) need advice on learning how to last longer. Even a few stroke is enough to get me off. What can I do to improve this?
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Margaret Thatcher on a cold day.
F24 here. One of my previous bfs had this same thing happen (although I was flattered by it, so it wasn’t really an issue). Just jerk off like an hour before you have sex— and/or, just cum fast the first time and then give her head until you’re ready for round 2.
I used to have that issue a long time ago I used a cock ring. Also can knock one out before the deed.
Oh dear, that’s a pretty common concern! It’s definitely something many guys face, and um, there are quite a few things you can try. Focusing on relaxing your pelvic floor muscles and really breathing deeply can help quite a bit. Some find switching positions or even distracting themselves a little during sex is useful too. The squeeze technique, where you gently squeeze the base of the penis when you feel it coming, can also be pretty effective, it’s worth a shot! Really, it’s all about figuring out what works best for you and your partner, and talking openly is key. Don’t hesitate to chat with a doctor or therapist if you’re still struggling, they can give you personalized advice. What are your thoughts on this, anyone else had experiences similar?
When (if) you masturbate, take your time with it, practice edging yourself and don’t be in a rush. Practice varying the speed and intensity. That should have some translation to actual PIV