So I’m becoming more and more interested at the thought of hooking up with someone and doing some stuff with them. It wouldn’t be anything penetrative, but more like doing oral and stuff like that. But how do I make sure that the person is safe to meet up with? I’m rather inexperienced when it comes to sex and stuff like this, so I don’t know what to look out for.
Any advice would be appreciated 🙂
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You can’t, there’s always a risk. The best steps you can take are asking to see an STD panel test from them and vetting them as much as you can online in regards to if they’d be violent. Make sure someone trusted knows your location and keep in contact with them in case something happens.
There’s always that risk. Have your wits about you, meet up somewhere busy at first and if your gut says anything at all that isn’t right then bail
If you are a billionaire or multimillionaire you can have people screened and even then there’d still be some risk. Most of us, most of the time, other humans are our greatest danger. Hookups most people want discreet and private. This can attract exploitive and dangerous people.
Meet in public. Take things slow. Don’t be driven by extreme anticipation or neediness. Trust your instincts.
Definitely meet in public. I wouldn’t rush the rest. Tell friends where you will be and make sure your partner knows that your friends know so your partner won’t try anything sketchy. Do not ignore any of these steps. Be safe.
Trust your instincts. If anything feels remotely off to you, nope the fuck out of there immediately.
You can’t.
better to hook up with someone you already know.
What can possibly go wrong ?