Title. (I am 37)
Going through a divorce, near the end. Had a vasectomy 5 years ago as wife had kids already. Now divorcing and feel an overwhelming sense of regret not having my own children.
Have researched vasectomy reversal and seems very possible. Researched and decided where I will book to have this done. However still worried at 37 that time is ticking to not only Father a child/children, but fully enjoy and embrace having children.
I may be over reacting, and maybe I’m scared.
Comments
You got this. I’m on a similar (though I have three kids of my own and don’t plan to have my vasectomy reversed – unless whomever I find next wants that) journey. Just take it all a day at a time and walk through life like you own it!
35 is plenty young enough to enjoy kids
My dad had me at 40. I’m 33 so not in the same boat, all I can say is that worrying isn’t going to solve anything – action. will. Focus on building your body back so that you can be healthy and active in the case that you do have kids.
Snip snap snip snap!
You got a vasectomy so someone else baby mother didn’t have more kids? Now she’s divorcing you 😆. Can’t make this shit up. Good luck
I’m 35 and planning to get mine reversed. I wanted to wait until I met the right person though. Still waiting. The surgeon seemed very confident in his abilities. He said he has a 95% success rate across all men, regardless of age
Sorry am woman but had to comment. My husband met me at 39 after ending a 7yr relationship. I was 29. Never too late.
Dont feel rushed like ur backed into a corner. U have time. The worst thing u can do to urself is rushing and having kids with the wrong person.