I only have sex with women who have a hysterectomy out of fear of pregnancy. Vasectomies aren’t 100% and so are the other contraceptives. How do people have sex so freely without worrying of having a baby or having to go through an abortion?
I only have sex with women who have a hysterectomy out of fear of pregnancy. Vasectomies aren’t 100% and so are the other contraceptives. How do people have sex so freely without worrying of having a baby or having to go through an abortion?
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If that fear is so strong then I would question your mental capacity to consent to or initiate sex. It’s not meant as an insult but this scenario comes across as an unreasonable fear and someone incapable of handling the potential, no matter how small the probability, of undesirable consequences.
Most contraceptive methods (hormonal and barrier) are really very effective, so people trust that they work and don’t worry too much about the very small chance that something will go wrong. Like, there’s a small chance that you’ll have a car accident every time you’re in a car, but because you trust the rules of the road, you hopefully don’t have a pathological fear of cars. Most people don’t focus on that .1% chance that contraception will fail, because it’s unlikely.
In countries/areas of countries where plan b and abortions are affordable/free and easily available, there is less fear about accidental pregnancy, because there are safe and available options when things go wrong.
Often people do worry about accidental pregnancies, but they also really like having sex, which outweighs the worry.