After college it seems like making new, genuine friends becomes harder.
Curious how guys here meet people outside of work or old circles.
How do you actually make new friends as an adult?
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After college it seems like making new, genuine friends becomes harder.
Curious how guys here meet people outside of work or old circles.
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Curious how guys here meet people outside of work or old circles.
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Touch them on the shoulder and scream, “TAG YOU’RE IT!” and then run off.
Taking more classes
Work has been my best possibility to.
I made a lot of my friends in adult life through gaming.
Times have changed dramatically friends aplenty
Girlfriends aplenty
Loneliness
Where to now
In my experience: never underestimate the power of activities. Activities are great because the interaction relies more on competence and teamwork than it does charisma.
Try something new like country or Latin dance classes. Rock climbing. Open mics if you’re into playing music (that’s a little high pressure though tbh). Do a tour of your city. Join a book club, running club, rec sports, or a pool (billiards) league.
And when people ask “how long have you been doing X.” Be forward. Tell them you got into it to start meeting people, a lot of people will relate!
Prison works for me.
Gym classes
meetup group for hobbies like board games, volleyball, tennis , pickle ball
Play a sport
You go up to a girl and ask her out and she goes “I see you more as a friend” and BAM! You have yourself a friend.
I don’t
Idk your age but from out of college to a few years ago when i turned 36 all i ever had was my wife and my kids. When my kids started sports and you’re forced to be around other adults with kids you start to make friends again. I wouldn’t say I have like the best friends in the world but I’ve met some really great guys that way. It’s all timing imo