How do you deal with not having any friends anymore?

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It’s been a rough couple months from being cheated on, which lead to me losing my girlfriend and best friend in one, and now I’ve lost everyone in that entire friend group with whom I used to be hanging out with multiple times a day. How should I move forward with being by myself and not having people to spend time with?

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  2. B_drgnthrn Avatar

    Find a hobby that you can do both solo and in a group.

    For me, it was camping. The more I did it, the better I got at it. Eventually I met other people that were into it, and we started doing it together.

    For you, it may be a trading card game, or going to concerts, or who knows what else.

  3. EggplantCheap5306 Avatar

    Focus on yourself, explore different hobbies, learn languages, get into art, gaming, sports, do things for yourself. Ever wanted to own a dog and go on long hiking trips, go for it. Volunteer, take cooking classes… the world is yours. Feel free to do whatever you want, nobody to convince, nobody to stop you

  4. thirtyone-charlie Avatar

    How did you lose everyone in the group?

  5. Same_Poet8990 Avatar

    Stealth camping and make a YouTube channel

  6. General_Ad80 Avatar

    hobbies.

    my friends are at my hobby groups. I see them once a week. itโ€™s great. ๐Ÿ‘

  7. ScarcityCareful5292 Avatar

    It’s hard at first, but then you get used to it and being alone becomes comfort