Title basically.
Do you feel it’s impolite? Do you even care? Would you tend to stay away, or is it actually a relief to see us express ourselves?
How do you feel about a woman who cusses a lot?
r/AskMen
Title basically.
Do you feel it’s impolite? Do you even care? Would you tend to stay away, or is it actually a relief to see us express ourselves?
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I don’t care
I think excessive cussing isnt classy for anyone.
i already swear like a sailor with tourettes. doubt i’d even notice until someone pointed it out
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I find it off-putting. I also think the same about men who cuss a lot.
I don’t give a shit, as long as it’s in the appropriate place.
I swear like sailor so it would be hypocritical, as long as she doesn’t do it around my family members especially the children it’s alright with me.
Naturally, I sometimes get the impression that she’s impulsive and irrational.
Other other hand, a girl who very rarely swears or only in certain situations, is a major turn on.
In the words of my grandma, who took no shit from no man.
“What’s good for the goose, is good for the gander.”
Don’t give a shit either way.
I don’t give a shit as long as they know when it is and isn’t appropriate.
Depends on if it’s in fun or out of anger
It’s the person!! NOT the cursing/swearing. Can’t judge someone on that alone.
I guess some people think a normal amount of cussing is “a lot” when a woman does it, but anyone can overdo it on the cussing. If you cuss when it’s not warranted, it’s not a huge deal, but it’s a little grating on the nerves after a while, no matter who’s doing it.
In public. Dont love it, at home in private whatever.
As long as she knows her surroundings, I don’t give a flying fuck. Alone when it’s us, don’t care. Around my grandpa in his 90s or out grocery shopping and there’s a little kid nearby, she should do better
I love to be friends with her. Those ladies are awesome.
I try to stay away from people who cuss. Being female doesn’t make it any better or worse.
For me personally, I don’t mind cussing but if it’s a lot then it’d turn me off.
Dont like men or women who cuss a LOT
My wife swears a lot. I don’t swear at all. She does her, and I do me.
Doesn’t bother me at all.
Depends on the situation or location and whether or not it’s combined with proper English. To me, there’s a big difference if someone is cussing to emphasize a point and otherwise has a diverse vocabulary versus just being uneducated or not very bright and having no other vocabulary to fill in.
Some cursing is normal, but a relentless stream all day everyday that will get old quickly
Swearing is fine, excessive swearing takes away any emphasis and just makes you sound trashy.
I married her!
We met when I was in the Navy, and I definitely have a sailor’s mouth, so it wasn’t exactly a hard pill for me to swallow. We’ve toned it down since starting our family, and we’ve both always been capable of speaking without swearing in mixed company. We belong together and our colorful language is one of the many reasons why.
Hate it. Total turn off.
As long as she’s respectful of the environment and mindful of others then I do not care. For instance no cursing around small children – I find that disrespectful and distasteful.
At home and it’s just us or age appropriate family/friends? I don’t give a fuck as long as she’s not cussing at me
Gender doesn’t matter to me, and it depends. The quote from Bull Durham comes to mind, “you win 50 in the show, then you can let the fungus grow on your shower shoes, and you’re colorful. Otherwise you’re just a slob.”
A person (man or woman) who cusses a lot and is also ignorant, uneducated, unemployed, is just an asshole. One who is successful and cusses is just colorful, at least to me.
The distinguishing thing is whether she cusses about stuff or about people. If someone, regardless of gender, is always going on about how many people in their life are assholes, it gets tedious. But saying shit when stubbing a toe is no big deal to me.
I cuss a lot so I don’t care. Obviously, time and place and knowing when not to do it. But if it’s just us? I don’t care.
It depends on the setting. Knowing how to behave in polite company is essential. That pretty much means they can swear all they want around me, I guess. /s.
Feeding animals on a farm, playing sports, working construction or something like that and it is all normal. It does not bother me in those settings.
I don’t mind swear words
But I mind when people inject them unnecessarily as “speech filler”. To me, anyone who swears to an “excessive” degree comes across as… a bit “trashy”, for lack of a better word.
At best it’s a sign of limited vocabulary. At worst, it’s a sign of poor emotional regulation.
Huge turn off
Women who cuss a lot tend to be more liberal, less uptight. Women who cuss a lot and suck at it just sound stupid. I’m reminded of my ex describing stuff as “the damn stupid ass shit” when she was frustrated
Depends on when it happens. Cussing because you stubbed your little toe. Fully understandable no issues. Cussing at a waiter because he gave her diet coke instead of coke zero. Not so much, very unappealing. And not all cuss words are treated equally.
I could give less of a shit as long as its not threatening violence or harm.
I do not swear in front of ladies, I treat all of them with dignity and respect, if they choose to lower that bar, how can I respect them.
The least they can do is have a sense of décorum
You mean mom?
As long as she knows when not to like with kids or professional settings I’m fine.
Depends when and where you cuss.
I don’t care.
Good thing I don’t cause she ain’t likely to stop lol
Personally I’m not really a fan of swearing, not my cup of tea
The fuck you talking about, man?
It’s crude and a sign of stupidity and classlessness in both women and men.
I’d be put off. Pass