How do you feel about your partner staying in contact with their ex?

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What are your thoughts or experiences. Is it a red flag or a grey area?

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  1. BenchDear4411 Avatar

    It depends on the level of contact, and the ex. My fiance is still friends with one of his exes, but they were friends first and only dated briefly. I’ve actually become friends with her too and she’s more my friend than his now. They have pretty minimal contact and I am usually included.

    If he was friends with a more serious or long term ex, or they talked super frequently, I probably wouldn’t be okay with it.