How do you feel when someone calls you “exotic”?

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This could evoke a wide variety of emotions, but how does it make you feel?

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  1. simoom_string77 Avatar

    Witnessed this, not experienced it. 
    It’s something that older generations used to say. Or people who aren’t well-travelled. Or racists. 

  2. lexi2700 Avatar

    Kind of special because it’s a unique compliment in a way but also like, “bro…I’m white…ain’t nothing “exotic”’about me.” 🤣

  3. anon12xyz Avatar

    I was called exotic for having sex with a black man as a white woman. It was weird

  4. lunarmothtarot Avatar

    I feel like an antique carpet

  5. babygirl-is-trying Avatar

    As a Latina in the US I’ve gotten this a lot and it doesn’t offend me but I find it funny because im second gen and very Americanized … Like sure i can speak Spanish but there is absolutely nothing exotic about me lol

  6. YourGirlHuzaina Avatar

    I always take it as a compliment.

    People around me always tell me I look mixed (Hispanic or Middle Eastern).

    I take it as a compliment for sure 🥰

  7. Natural-Tadpole-4888 Avatar

    Gives an ignorant vibe to the person giving the compliment. I know they mean well, but the probably pronounce the L’s in tortilla also

  8. Such-Swimming2109 Avatar

    I liked it when I was young but now it feels kinda fetish y

  9. liabearr Avatar

    I had an experience where I didn’t really know how to think about it. I was wearing beaded Navajo earrings at my job and a coworker said they were so exotic. She started off saying they were cute and I said thank you! Then she said that and I went “Oh!” And she asked if that wasn’t okay to say, I felt like it was a little off? But not that bad, because she meant something good about it. I personally feel like native Americans should be normalized and acknowledged as they’re still present. Then again, I’m not Native American! I’ve also been called exotic looking, but that’s another story.