Hey, I wanted to ask something that is bothering me. I am kinda petite (5’1 and 105-110 lbs). And if a guy lies on me to cuddle for example I feel crashed and ask for merci cause I feel that I can’t even take a deep enough breath.
I have been heavier when I was younger so maybe it’s self-consciousness but I am super nervous to lie with my whole body weight on top of a guy. So the question is: do you feel the same chest pressure as I do but just don’t talk about it or you are used to it? Or really it’s not an issue and you can fr still breathe fine? (the guy for example is around 150lbs)
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Hey, I wanted to ask something that is bothering me. I am kinda petite (5’1 and 105-110 lbs). And if a guy lies on me to cuddle for example I feel crashed and ask for merci cause I feel that I can’t even take a deep enough breath.
I have been heavier when I was younger so maybe it’s self-consciousness but I am super nervous to lie with my whole body weight on top of a guy. So the question is: do you feel the same chest pressure as I do but just don’t talk about it or you are used to it? Or really it’s not an issue and you can fr still breathe fine? (the guy for example is around 150lbs)
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I mean I wouldn’t put my whole bodyweight on any size of woman lol.
I’m attracted to short/petite girls so I’d be careful for sure (I’m 6’1″, 176lbs)
I’m fine with that!! Different ways to cuddle to, find what work for you
He’ll be fine, you dint need to worry about crushing him in any way 🤣
Not an issue at all, bring it on
I prefer women who are smaller than me – im 5’7 and weigh 165lbs – and its for a number of reasons.
A smaller woman for me means I can wrap my arms around her and make her feel warm/cozy/safe. Plus, when it comes to lying on the couch, bed, grass – it feels more natural for me.
My wife is about 3 inches shorter than me, and weighs about 15 to 20 lbs more than me – so its not too bad, but because I am more toned/athletic, it just doesnt feel are right when shes on top of me. I know that sounds bad, but I can’t really hold her or hug her properly.
I feel like it makes my dick feel huge
I enjoy it and I believe most men would. So don’t overthink it.
I’m 5”2 and about 113lbs, and I play a game with my partner where I pretend I died on top of him by going completely limp and he has to get free. You’ll be fine!
I’d barely feel you on top based on those numbers though can see how you feel squashed by the average dude.
My girlfriend is around your size. But I am a lot bigger than the guy you’re describing. Either way. He will be fine. If not he will die in a way that will make his ancestors proud.
Abso-fucking-lutely. I hooked up with someone who is 4’8”. I’m 6’0”.
Most men won’t have a problem with a woman lying on them. Don’t overthink it; just do it, and if there’s a problem, you can adjust, like lying partially on his side.
My ex was 5’3″ and weighed 160 at her heaviest. She practically slept on my chest and I loved it. You’re good.
Best Feeling ever. Don’t worry
I can lift over 300 pounds above my head, I don’t even register the weight of someone around 100 pounds.
I was just traveling in Asia and I met some girls that were literally 4’9, I’m 6’3. I thought it was rather cute, lol. Don’t mind the height at all.
To most men, your weight would be like cuddling with a pillow.
Added note: if women are concerned with their guys comfort while cuddling, try to keep your hair from overtaking the guys face.
My last gf was the same height and weights as me and i loved when she layed on top of my with her full weight
Its not even an issue that should come to mind
You’re tiny and that’s a good thing.
I’m a big guy — 196 cm — and I have a fetish for tiny women. Not just short but also petite. I love picking them up during sex and crushing them when I’m on top.
Like others have said already, 110lbs is paperweight to most guys. Not that it’s ‘tiny’ or ‘puny’, we just on average have the physical strength to not be bothered by that much weight.
Just keep the hair out of the face area and you are golden. I often fall asleep with my wife laying on me and she weighs more.
the weight is spread so much that most men will barely register it. Don’t step or kneel of his chest and he’ll be fine
First of all I prefer smaller women, regarding the weight? I don’t feel it at all.
I do have a fondness for women who’re on the smaller side, but I also understand that this preference comes with drawbacks that I have to work with. The thing you mentioned, about feeling ‘crushed’ when cuddling, requires being conscious of one’s own size. You just have to understand this difference and be mindful of your partner. There are ways to avoid uncomfortable ‘size’ problems.
So the question is: do you feel the same chest pressure as I do but just don’t talk about it or you are used to it?
It’s not nearly as bad as you think it is.
Youre fine, and dont be so shy to ask if it uncomfortable for your man, make she he knows its ok to let you know if it is and vice versa.
My fiance has the same issue and similar size to you. If she Kay’s her head or even full body on me it makes no difference, if anything feels nice.