How do you know if someone actually enjoys your company or is just being polite?

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I overthink this all the time. Like, I’ll hang out with someone and then spiral later wondering if they actually like spending time with me or were just being nice. Are there signs people give off that they genuinely enjoy your company?

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  1. samforbest Avatar

    Totally get this. Real signs they enjoy you: they invite you to things, keep the convo going, laugh easily, seem relaxed, and make plans again. If they’re just polite, they won’t put in effort or reach out first. Trust their actions more than your spirals people who want you around *show you. 💛

  2. Equivalent_Quit666 Avatar

    well try setting up few meetups – if they show up each time – they do, if they don’t – they don’t.