I have come to the conclusion that I suck real bad at love making. Once a girl asked me ‘ Is this your first time?”
I mean I try to pleasure the woman – for example I like going down on her – and I know that many men don’t like that.
But once I start fucking – it’s like a race for me. And I can’t stop myself.
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If you have to ask the question, you might be bad at it.
When she doesn’t react in a positive manner.
If she comes back for another round it must not of been too bad.
usually they just tell me 🙁
What do you mean by a race?
I’ve read once that golf and sex are two things you can really enjoy without being very good at.
Batman couldn’t get this info out of me💀💀
Her pussy is dry, her body language is not receptive. She cringes during sex.
Slow down and enjoy it, it is not a race.
When your going to town and she tells you we should repaint the bedroom while filing her nails
If it’s a race you might want to consider doing other things instead.
For once, not being a woman, I will dare speak on behalf of women: A pneumatic drill is not going to do it for most.
Don’t worry about being bad and instead ask yourself (or better yet ask her) what you can do to get better.
It sounds like you already know that a big problem is that once you start you then try to finish as quickly as possible. How can you address that?
If they ghost you, it’s a bad sign. If they tell you they love you after the second or third time that is also a bad sign. Good luck in figuring them out.
You’ll know. But a sure sign is when, even though she still talks to you, it’s more about official business. It’s as if you’re talking to the IRS during an audit.
>But once I start fucking – it’s like a race for me.
Don’t do that. I think a good signal is that they want to have sex with you again.
Sounds like neuroticism is what drives you to wanna cum fast, you get too excited and let it consume you rather than you controlling it. And of course if youre neurotic you will not be in a flow state when having sex, it will feel robotic and forced
Sex can be about enthusiasm and passion, and it can be about technique. Focus on making your girl feel like she is dessert, the center of the universe in bed, the most desirable being on the planet, and the technique will come in time. The best lover I ever had was not so great technique -wise but she was ALL in, totally vulnerable and in the moment, and that was hot AF. Passion not athleticism.
>But once I start fucking – it’s like a race for me. And I can’t stop myself
It is a race, women are just really bad at losing, you just keep running mate, win them all, show them who is the boss.
It would be nice if they were honest and just told me what I’m doing wrong
When she doesn’t tell you what she likes or you don’t listen
Well I think the answer is, you are bad at sex.
Just take the car around the track once by yourself before the race starts