i’m pretty direct i just ask— i don’t do it over text though, exclusively in person; i’ve been burned by the screenshot send culture that a lot of people my age (21F) participate in
With your favorite quill pen, write a brief enquiry regarding the matter on embossed paper, place it in an envelope closed with your personal wax seal and tied with a red ribbon, add a touch of your cologne to the outside and have one of your servants deliver it at teatime to the one who has caught your eye. Make sure your servant waits patiently for that one you favor to pen a response.
I will tell you- looking them in the eye and saying you need a new “friend with benefits” MiGHT not work. Nor will getting tipsy and letting him take you to his house. 11 years later and i still don’t know where I went wrong!
Comments
i’m pretty direct i just ask— i don’t do it over text though, exclusively in person; i’ve been burned by the screenshot send culture that a lot of people my age (21F) participate in
It’s always better to be direct with this stuff imo. Just say you’re up for some no strings attached fun.
With your favorite quill pen, write a brief enquiry regarding the matter on embossed paper, place it in an envelope closed with your personal wax seal and tied with a red ribbon, add a touch of your cologne to the outside and have one of your servants deliver it at teatime to the one who has caught your eye. Make sure your servant waits patiently for that one you favor to pen a response.
Be direct but kind as this could be thought of as offensive
I will tell you- looking them in the eye and saying you need a new “friend with benefits” MiGHT not work. Nor will getting tipsy and letting him take you to his house. 11 years later and i still don’t know where I went wrong!
“I’m not looking for anything serious”
I don’t. Fear of rejection lol.