Maybe you’re tired, just woke up, already had sex, or are just want some PG-rated cuddles from your partner for whatever reason (or for no reason at all). How do you like it?
Do you want to literally be in your partner’s arms, or do you want to lay on their chest? Do you rest your head on your partner’s shoulders as little spoon, or do you prefer a little space? Where do you want your partner’s hands? Everyone’s different, and there are no wrong answers.
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It would’ve been nice, but both long-term partners. I had always turned a hug or a cuddle into something sexual. It was super annoying.
I love being the little spoon. His arm holding me tight and my butt arched back to him. It feels like a hug from behind. Ugh all the feels ❤️
I tell him to hold me like a dog
Which means for him to lay on his back and spread his legs, let me get settled between them, then i lay back onto his chest. Sometimes he’ll hold me under my arms and they stick out all stiff like dogs’ do so, that’s why i describe it like that lol
It is absolute heaven
My husband wraps his arms and legs around me like a body pillow and I love it.
Anything goes. I’m laying on him, him laying on me, him being the big spoon, me trying to be the big spoon, …
Little spoon or tucked into their armpit!
spooning!
she’s a bit taller than me, so i’m always her little spoon. it makes me feel so comfortable, safe in her arms, and loved.
Love being big spoon…sometimes leg over him. I like to pull him in close, kiss him between the shoulder blades and tell him I love him 🙂
He like to be upright and likes to have a pillow under his arm and next to him. I love laying my head on his lap while he watches tv. If I lay on my back I get to pet his beard. If I’m on my side I will watch the tv or be on my phone. If he is laying down, I like to scooch between his legs and lay my head on his chest. My peace and my happy place
My favorite is when we’re on the couch and he just wraps his arm around me and pulls me in. Or just casually throwing an arm over me in bed. 🥹 makes me so happy.
I looooove being big spoon. Especially when the alarm has just gone off in the morning and I use the snooze to roll over and put my partner over to me like a pillow I’m hugging.
What makes it better is that I’m a short gal tall men seem to really like (???) so I’m always more of a backpack than a big spoon lol
I love being cuddled up to my partner, both of us on our sides facing each other but our bodies curled up to each other, last time we did this I fell asleep in minutes (without even trying to sleep)
It varies. Sometimes I’m little spoon (5’0) which is comforting because he’s 6’5. Other times I like to lay on his chest and hear his heartbeat. My husband even lays across me somedays and I pet his hair. If I’m really upset over something I like big hugs with his arms wrapped around me.
Starfished right on top lol
I MISS CUDDLING W MY MANNNN
I LOVE when my husband lays on me. With him between my legs and my legs around him, his head in my chest or stomach. It’s my absolute FAVORITE. I have no idea but it’s so intimate and comfy.
A cuddle is a cuddle, I don’t mind what form it takes.
I like variety
I don’t
I like being the big spoon
I love being cuddled while we do normal things, like cooking and a back hug, head on my shoulders, having a conversation while I chop something. Or him wrapping me in his jacket when I am cold outside. I do like hugs, in general, but I love the ones where I am being hugged, rather than us hugging each other, if that makes sense, like my hands and forehead are on his chest, his arms wrapped around. Or lying down, head on his chest, am wrapped around me.
My boyfriend says that I’m like a space heater when I sleep – so when our alarms start ringing, we’re usually not next to each other in bed.
One of my favorite things that he does is silence that first alarm of his and, in his semi-conscious, he pulls me into him. <3
Usually, he’ll have one arm underneath my neck and pillow and the other wrapped around my torso just under my chest. It’s the intentionality of it when you’re not fully aware of your actions (partially asleep) that gets me.
I love when we completely hug each other. I love any hug, but especially when we’re lying down and I hug him from his neck and he hugs me from my stomach and we’re kind of like clinging to each other
I like making him my little spoon even if he’s a foot taller than me lol or having him lay his head on my chest while he caresses my stomach. Orrrrrr I’ll lay my head on his chest and throw my leg over his lap and my arm over his abdomen to lay snug against him.
Lay on his chest while he rubs my back
I wanna be bear hugged. I like to lay on his chest but my favorite is when he spoons me and wraps his top leg around mine and imprisons me. I feel so safe and warm 😭
“Like a baby”
Basically just being cradled
I have issues with affection so I prefer not to cuddle.
He’ll big spoon cuddle me and I’ll curl up in front while he puts his arm under my pillow and we get comfortable to make sure we both can see the TV
Like spooning, but we’re both facing each other. With my face in his chest and arms and legs wrapped around me.
I love being little spoon and them having an arm around me pulling me against them, It makes me feel safe.