How do you navigate this?

So this guy (32M) I’ve (22F) been talking to for about a year now has told me recently that his type is thick curvy girls, I’m skinny and small chested. Tonight I asked if I should wear my choker with the dress or without and I sent him both. He said either looks fine but without looks more natural and I told him I could try it out.

I was curious and asked why he doesn’t really like the emo look and he said it’s not his type (I’ve always been emo and he’d tease me about it early on and always knew I was emo) and that he doesn’t want to be with someone who wears black all the time. I purposely every time we hung out didn’t wear super emo stuff and avoided wearing all black. I told him some of my best outfits are in black and that I’ve gotten many compliments on what I wear.

He said it’s just so different from him so I asked if he even liked me, he said he did but didn’t like the look. He said “I bet you wear all black when I’m not around” so I was like yeah it’s what I like and he told me he didn’t like it. I also told him it was a bit shallow because I like him how he is even if he’s not emo or whatever the hell, and he’s thrown at me that I’m completely different from what he wants.

Just so you know I’ve let him know plenty of times it’s okay to break it off because sometimes it just doesn’t work out and also broke it off only for him to tell me he didn’t want me to and call me a bunch of times. I do like him but I don’t understand the back and forth

He’s also told me this not too long ago “And honestly I think you’re the sweetest most sincere beautiful girl I’ve ever met in my life and I won’t ever find another girl like you. I think you are the most beautiful person ever inside and out. It’s the problems that surround me that give me doubts.”