Do you meet them one-on-one or is it always in a group setting? Is it normal to meet them in late night in a bar/club?
How do you navigate your female friendships?
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Do you meet them one-on-one or is it always in a group setting? Is it normal to meet them in late night in a bar/club?
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My two best friends ever are women. We hung out all the time one on one. Why would there be anything to worry about. We were literally just friends.
Usually one-on-one. But I moved far away from them all a long time ago.
Sometimes we would meet in a bar or club but we would usually go there together.
I’ve never differentiated. I’ve met my male buddies for beers and my female buddies for beers. Same as coffee, same as hanging out, same as going on bike rides, going to the movies. It’s always been the same.
I stopped having friendships with other women years ago, except my daughter. Long story short, I got a torture device placed in my head during surgery by health insurance executives and the government. Every woman who was my friend got access to the device to torture me on it. Most women are sick monsters.
Treat it the same, and it’ll be the same.
Don’t have ulterior motives, like you’re waiting for your moment to ask ‘em out. If you wanna date ‘em, then ask, but if all you want is friendship, just BE a friend. It’s not difficult. Some may be good friends, some may not, but treating them like a friend is all there is to it.
They’ll let you know what they’re comfortable with (one-on-one or not), and you do the same, but be friendly and go from there.