Do you kiss goodnight? Hold hands when sleeping? Say thank you for small things she did? Were these lost as the marriage/ relationship goes on?
How do you show your affection to your girlfriend/ wife?
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Do you kiss goodnight? Hold hands when sleeping? Say thank you for small things she did? Were these lost as the marriage/ relationship goes on?
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I grope her enough to be considered sexual assault. Kissing, touching, words of affirmation. I want her sick of me hitting on her and for her to feel as beautiful and desirable as I see her
Today, I stayed with her when she was sad and she talked out why. (It wasn’t a ‘relationship thing’- it was just about life being life, you know?). Most of my ‘thing’ is just paying attention.
I send her dank memes and animal videos ar regular intervals throughout the day.
And occasionally buy her pointed objects.
Kisses, butt smacks, saying nice things, trying to make her life easier, sincere respect, cunnilingus, spending quality time…
You know, the basics
Kisses, pat on the butt. Let her know I love her. During the week I’ll send a sweet message occasionally
Cooking a real good meal every evening, she often says it’s the best part of her day 😁
Were these lost as the marriage/ relationship goes on?
Not if you put the effort into it. One thing that many couples forget to do (or run out of time, especially with kids) is to consciously still go out on dates rather than slipping into routine.
Most of my SOs have loved gentle boob holding as affection – not groping sexually or playing with her nipple, but just gently cupping while watching TV or spooning before bed or whatever. Massages are good, checking in via text during the day to say you’re thinking of her or sending cute pet pictures etc.
Appreciation, flirting, physical touch, teasing how she likes it, an occasional foodie she enjoys, listening, and of course meeting her physical and emotional needs.
I give her good morning kisses, good night kisses. I tell her how much I appreciate her, I congratulate her on all her successes, I try to listen as best as I can to her, I tease her sometimes and I flirt with her.