It’s not that I haven’t been successful at talking to random women along the way. However, it ain’t ever easy. What’s your experience, go to methods, and what advice would you give to the shy guys on here?
I typically just be friendly, try get them to laugh/smile, and watch their body language to see if they’re showing any interest. If I know that I’ll probably won’t see them again than I’ll try to catch their number. Otherwise, if I know I’ll likely run into them again than I’ll slow play it til about the 3rd time I see again. That way I can if they are just being friendly or actually have interest 🤷♂️ I’ve been more successful with the slow play after seeing the woman a time or two. Never wait to long fellas, someone else my catch her interest
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I don’t. I don’t even talk to men. I have no idea what to ever say to people at all or I find it very boring to do so. I don’t care how their journey was to a place or how they are feeling to be honest. Strange thing is I’ve never struggled to make friends.
Like you would any other human, as crazy as it sounds
I simply go and talk with the woman. About a topic that isn’t spicy or polemic like politics or religion. I don’tworry about studying her body language nor to activate pleasant emotional triggers on her.
“I understand I’m a white male, I’ll call them myself. “
Don’t make it about you talking to her. Society has rules. Introduce yourself to her, then ask her a question and listen. Don’t force anything. If it’s there, it’ll stay there and eventually you’ll pick it up.