how long after you “finish” are you thinking about sex again?

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after you finish, how long have you gone without thinking about sex or having the urges start to rise again? on a good day, probably like 30 minutes. are our brains wired to want it this much or does it just depend on the person?

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  1. KebabAnnhilator Avatar

    I’d say an hour to a few hours, used to be less but I’m well into my 30s these days.

  2. zeroabe Avatar

    38 seconds. I’m thinking, “god I wish I could reload faster I’d totally do that again right now.”

  3. Defiant_Sir767 Avatar

    I would say between 15 and 30 minutes for me. If she’s enthusiastic about it maybe shorter.

    At the same time, the flesh is weak 😂

  4. zipcodekidd Avatar

    I’m thinking about the next time during my performance and I even set it up. I want you again same time same place.

  5. SecretarySenior6707 Avatar

    In my 30s usually a day for me to be interested again

  6. Mr-PumpAndDump Avatar

    Immediately since I just had some

  7. Henry5321 Avatar

    First one ramps me up. The more I have, the more I want. I have a constant low grade desire all the time.

    More of a limit of how quickly my body can get back in the action.

  8. OldPostalGuy Avatar

    About 3 seconds after we finish I’ll ask her if she’s ready to go again. Laughter ensues while we bask in the post-coital glow. It usually takes a couple of hours before we’re ready to engage again.

  9. Christopherno_1 Avatar

    I’m usually ready to go again after about 15 mins

  10. Separate-Breakfast18 Avatar

    Is this serious? As soon as I’m done, I wish I lasted longer. I miss the days when I could @$#@# for hours before climax.

    These days, sometimes it takes 3 days or 4 minutes. I’m HIGHLY disappointed in myself if its 3-4 minutes.

  11. shiftersix Avatar

    I don’t stop thinking but the body disagrees.

  12. Hrekires Avatar

    Could be 5 minutes, could be a couple days, just depends on my mood

  13. bozhodimitrov Avatar

    Nowadays with the consistent healthy eating and proper training/workout routine, I literally finish and I keep being hard, so I can slowly continue in order to not irritate the head too much while it’s hyper sensitive post orgasm.

    Consistent, systematic and good eating habits + enough hydration + decent sleep and low levels of stress gives you that. Nothing magical there.

  14. OGigachaod Avatar

    About 2-3 seconds, had an ex that called me Energizer Bunny.

  15. Main-Extreme6534 Avatar

    Depends on the day. I say Like 15 seconds after I nut. I dont even go soft sometimes. I stay hard, i clean up and we go again but I can’t really bust. Sometimes 30 mins, but sometimes a day or twice a day

  16. Slim_Grim13 Avatar

    heavy breathing We need rest! The spirit is willing but the flesh is spongey and bruised…

  17. kirklandistheshit Avatar

    Usually a few hours until I really want to go again. But I’ll gladly focus on her until I’m good to go.

  18. CrashInspecta Avatar

    If finished by mouth or hand (either her jerking me off or me pulling out and busting the nut kn her or a towel or whatever), I’m ready to go again in a few minutes. If delivering a cream pie then I’m probably done for a couple hours.

  19. Samsquamsh04 Avatar

    Depends on her level of enthusiasm. Usually a fun moustache ride is enough time to reload the weapon. However i think my vasectomy might have something to do with that. I have no idea why, but it’s just something i noticed post Darwin Award nomination.

  20. SeveralConcert Avatar

    An hour or two but I barely act on it.

    Maybe a quick wank to relive the sex if it was good before bed

  21. Sorkel3 Avatar

    I’m thinking about round #2 while I’m still pumping out round #1.

    Yea, I’m that horny.

  22. Think_Preference_611 Avatar

    With my partner sometimes I go straight back in, when I can’t I still want to and will do it as soon as I’m hard again lol

    She’s very hot and I love her very much, dangerous combo. I’m chronically sleep deprived and I don’t care.

  23. BlackDahlia2004 Avatar

    Depends on my energy level, sometimes I want to keep going immediately after I cum and sometimes I want to just lay there😂

  24. OhTheHueManatee Avatar

    Right away especially when the after glow wears down.

  25. Expert-Hyena6226 Avatar

    It’s called a refractory period, I believe….

  26. DasFreibier Avatar

    about 5min, depending on the magnitude of orgasm, and Im ready to go again after maybe 15

  27. muy_carona Avatar

    Depends on the person. In my early 20s we’d go 3-5 times a day. Now in my 40s I’d like that much in a month.

  28. Longjumping_Sock_153 Avatar

    I wanna have it right after having it but my bf is always tired after I be tryna go 2-3 rounds but he be knocked

  29. Reasonable-Glass-965 Avatar

    90% of the time. Just want to keep going. But sometimes I need to drink some water and eat first.

  30. Insayne224U Avatar

    35 and it varies from how much my partner wants to go again. Takes a little effort and 2 minutes

  31. GlossyGecko Avatar

    Not till the next day probably. I could go for a few more rounds if they want to, but I’m not exactly seeking it out.

  32. Angry_GorillaBS Avatar

    It doesn’t stop. Just the physical capability isn’t there. Usually not right away at least. That’s why you keep it going in other ways sometimes