Me 26F and him 26M been meeting almost everyday, but not today.
It turns out I feel lonely and sad if I don’t meet him that day.
The worse part I feel I don’t know what to do without him. I think this is not a good thing for myself.
While when I ask him today he said it is up to me whether I meet him or not he said either way is fine (maybe he thought I need a rest, I just finished work at 5). I feel sad just bcs of that.
I feel jealous when he feels okay if he does not see me. It feels like it is only me. I have that ‘need’ that he wants me too.
Is this normal?
TL;DR
I meet him almost everyday but he is fine not meeting me today, and I feel sad about it. I want him to want me too. Is it normal?
Comments
Mmmmm i always feel this way when my ovulation is starting, see which day of your cycle you are. It might have something to do with hormones
ohhh it helps finding ways to have fun on your own and spending time with yourself on what you like. i see my bf once a week, but we try to do a lot of sleepovers so more like two days a week.
You need to have other things and other people in your life.
Don’t you have friends you want to see or a hobby you want to do or a book you want to read?
It’s incredibly unhealthy to have one person be the focus of all your time and energy.
it is normal, it maybe sounds a teeny bit like separation anxiety though- as someone whos frequently on the other end of this its not a nice feeling when you want time to yourself but your partner needs to see you constantly to feel secure. He definitely does want you but you both need time for yourselves so you can function as an individuals.
Or maybe im just chatting shit- but thats how i feel when my boyfriend feels the same way as you. You also should be glad he can function on his own not jealous- if he didnt wanna be with you, he more than likely wouldn’t be with you- you dont realise how much weight you put on ur partners shoulders when ur overly co-dependant with them and they dont get time to be themselves or breathe. He should definitely be allowed a day to himself , atleast a day.