When you answered yes, how did that conversation progress? What made you decide to say yes? What activity was propositioned (coffee, lunch, etc)?
How many times have you been asked out in person? How many times have you replied yes?
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When you answered yes, how did that conversation progress? What made you decide to say yes? What activity was propositioned (coffee, lunch, etc)?
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I have never been asked out, so I’ve never said yes or no to such a thing.
Many times, at least a dozen? I would always say yes, my rule was at least one date, most of the time it was lunch, casual. Only one person ever made it to the second date and that is my husband 🥰
I did say no once and the guy trauma dumped on me then asked me out immediately afterwards- I said no. The red flags were red flagging. He started stalking me right after 🙃.
I dont know exactly how many times. Ive said yes maybe 5 times max. I only say yes when I think they’re attractive
I have been asked out a good few times.
I was asked out by the man i am currently dating a good few times said no. Then I said to my friend I am ready to date and he text me so… we had our 3rd date yesterday!
Only said yes to the first guy to do it and later married him. Have been asked out maybe seven or eight times, I never really kept track, and said no to them all. Having an engagement and later wedding ring helped ease hurt feelings so they usually took it well.
A lot of times. I still get asked out as a married gal. I said yes when my husband asked me out but we were already having sex and hanging out together by then.
I think I’ve been asked one time.
He gave me his number but I’ve never texted him. 😅
Very very rarely. Two times where I was directly asked my number. One is my husband.
Never once! Which is confusing because I’m told I’m really beautiful apparently so idk what’s wrong w me 🥹
in person i can only remember once, but i said no
Maybe twice a month? 😅 It’s usually to play golf… right after they learn I play. That, or have dinner
Twice, second one I married. Been happily together for best part of 40 years.
one time
I think three times? Said yes to each. First was a movie (high school), it was fine except I got a horrible migraine and felt super sick. Second he took me to a play in campus, which i thought was nice until he told me he was required to see it for a class (college). Third guy took me kayaking and to lunch, I married him.
Edit: just remembered, I got asked out a couple of times on the bus or subway. I declined, I wasn’t interested and also felt a little uncomfortable with one of them (too pushy). In those instances there wasn’t any conversation or connection, just, “hi, you’re pretty, let’s go out”.
Been asked maybe 30-40 times ( I was young and living in London and Portugal, way before tinders and such), but I have been single only few months in my adult life so I have said yes only when single, maybe five times.
I really haven’t counted.
I don’t know it’s been a long time. Back when people where asking me out my cell provider charged me 20 cents per text and I had 700 mins a month to talk or it was $1 per min after that and my dad would call to yell at me when I went over. So most asking was done face to face. I didn’t get asked out a tone and I usually said yes. How did the conversation go from there? We usually talked about the date what we liked to do those kinds of things. Dates that were proposed and usually did wee movies, restaurants, fairs, roller skating. My husband proposed putt putt for our 1st date but we ended up going out to eat the day of instead because of rain.
Once, we’ve been together almost 4 years now.
We were both seniors in highschool, he first ran up to my car and told me I was attractive after school. I found him on snap over the weekend while dog sitting and we started sharing music. During class the next week he asked me to join him and his friends Friday afterschool to hangout. They picked me up at 10pm and I decided to stay for only an hour or two. We ended up falling asleep cuddling on his best friends bedroom floor. I got grounded for a month but it was soooooooo worth it!
I don’t think I’d be able to count… like 70-90??
I’ve only dated about 5 guys (including my husband).
I said yes cus I liked and was very attracted to them.
I think in most cases I was rather oblivious they were “dates”… maybe cus my definition of dates is mostly dependent on whether I consider them dates. Plus we usually started out as acquaintances/friends/fwbs, so the line of where it became a date is rather blurry… So they might see a certain dinner as a date; but I may not have considered that as a date (and vice versa).
So for pretty much all those guys, the guys usually considered our first date as our first sit down meal together where they treat me. Whereas for me, it’s usually when we did some sort of activity (ice skating, bouldering, hiking etc) together and likely a meal.
Multiple times asked out 3 times said yes
Probably around 5 in highschool. I’ve said “no” to all of them because they all gave me the heebie jeebies. In college, 3 times since I keep to myself. 1 of them, I said “yes” because he was my best friend (and crush at the time). I thought it was a casual hang out, but apparently it was a date according to my current boyfriend. Joking, kind of 🤭
I have no idea. I’ve been asked out a lot of times in my life. I accepted when I felt like there was potential or wanted to give it a chance. I said no when I was unavailable, didn’t want to, didn’t feel ready to, or didn’t know them well enough.
A couple times by strangers, always said no because they were too old. A couple times by friends, and always said no because I never felt anything for them 🙁
I’ve been asked out more times than I can count.. comes with the territory when you’ve worked in bars and restaurants most of your life. A few drinks in and suddenly everyone thinks they’re charming. I’m pretty open and social, but I rarely say yes (especially when on the job). Still, a couple of post-shift drinks have happened. No complaints 😏