How often did your dad tell you that he loved you growing up?

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My (21M) grandpa told me that his dad never told him that he loved him growing up. He was a good man but he was never emotional and personal.

How often did your dad tell you that he loved you?

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  1. toffeehooligan Avatar

    May sound cliche, but he didn’t need to. He always made me feel that way. I just knew. Though we are now older, he says it every time I go to my parent house.

  2. Synnthos Avatar

    He wasn’t around much because my mom and him just couldn’t make it work.

    But when he was around he used to whisper it in my ear while I was falling asleep.

  3. Direct_Bug_1917 Avatar

    I don’t ever recall him saying it, but I’m confident he did. He showed it other ways. Wouldve been nice to hear it though. Just that generation I guess. I tell my son litterally every time I see him.

  4. greer_boat Avatar

    Never he makes me feel anxious when he’s around so there’s that

  5. anal88sepsis Avatar

    Can’t remember my dad ever saying that , even now as an adult he’s never said those words but he always showed it and used other words to convey his love for me.

  6. No-Environment6103 Avatar

    Only when I would say it. He would rarely initiate it.

  7. Lostyogi Avatar

    Team never here🫡

  8. bag_of_hats Avatar

    I can’t remember, but then again i can’t remember like 85% of my childhood.
    I make it a point to say it to my daughter every day.

  9. orlybatman Avatar

    I can’t remember him ever telling me that.

    He probably did, but I think it would have been when I was very young. Definitely not as I was in the 10+ range.

  10. thebouncingfrog Avatar

    Never

    My mom didn’t either until I was in my late teens.

  11. Majestic_You_7399 Avatar

    Mine told me every chance he got how much he loved me….he also owes my my 47k in back child support was never around for anything and is always woah is me

  12. smack4u Avatar

    I can’t remember

    I tell my family (wife and kids)every fucking day

    I say the same to close fiends.

    There’s one, my closest, who can’t say it back. He says “me too”

  13. Radiant-Ordinary1390 Avatar

    Never met him till I was 16

  14. Away-Wave-5713 Avatar

    Never, I was the one who always says it until I didn’t. Eww fuck, there is smth wrong with them.

  15. Ok-Entertainment8151 Avatar

    I really can’t recall how often he actually spoke the words “I love you”, but his actions have said it every day of my life.