By this, I mean over the span of your single life (assuming you want to be in a relationship). I realize that everyone’s different, but maybe there will be a kind of average. I’m talking Donna Summers’ “Hot Stuff” type of things (but not necessarily sexual).
How often do you legitimately go out with the intention of finding a romantic partner?
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I never went out with that intention. It still happened š¤·āāļø lol
never done that tbh
Never. Men have always approached me so Iāve never thought to go out to find a man because they just find me, even when I didnāt want them to. Grown men started approaching me when I was a minor so that sort of showed me early on that I really shouldnāt seek men because that would make things worse for me.
Absolutely never. I’ve gone out with the intention of making a friend and ended up with a boyfriend though.
never and always. I don’t really go out with full intention; I go about my day like normal and expect nothing, but I realize that if I want it to happen, I need to be open to connection. I always have an eye out, if that makes sense? I am not on apps, so the old-fashioned way is all I got.
Literally 0%. I gave up on dating about 9 years ago and figured I’d meet someone organically if it happened.
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Never. Not the relationship kind of girl lol. I like to find a lover or what the gen zās call āsituationshipsā though haha.
Woman choose, men take charge. If that anwsers your ulterior question.
Donna Summers???
Whenever I leave the house Iām generally optimistic Iāll meet someone
So I go out alone sometimes, not necessarily to find someone, but to have fun and see if I meet any people, and I have fun, but no guys ever approach me. I do so much in terms of making sure I look friendly, open, smiling, and making eye contact and it’s never happened.
If it wasn’t for the apps, I’d be fucked. The apps have been working well for me so far, but mostly because I’m not looking for anything serious right off the bat. It doesn’t mean a relationship eventually is off the table, but it’s not like I date with the main intention being to settle down.
Every day I do my best to look nice and cute because I always think I could meet someone special that day. Or at least make a good impression lol
Whenever I tried, I failed miserably. I ended up landing with a guy I met through work.
Never. I dont care about being in a relationship.
Sometimes I go out with the intention of getting laid, but never with the intention of finding a partner.
I donāt think Iāve ever gone out with the intention of finding a partner.
Haven’t done that even once