I think it’s important to get a feel for the person before deciding to meet, so you don’t waste your time or end up alone with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable. Other than that it’s entirely just when you feel up to it.
I am always so taken aback at how many men want to meet after “Hey, what’s up?” Like who the heck are you???
On the other end of this I’ll get bored after a few weeks of messaging. Usually once we’ve established banter and I notice I’m excited to get a message from them I’ll agree to meet up.
Imo “online dating” doesn’t exist, you don’t know them. Set a real date, that’s when the courtship actually starts. I like meeting someone as soon as possible
This seems like it will vary from person to person. I met my boyfriend on Tinder and I went on a date with him after about 4ish days of talking on the app and via text!
It’s up to you. Personally, I wasn’t going on a date with someone until we spent at least a few days talking. I wasn’t willing to give my time to some random guy just like that. My time is way too precious.
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I think it’s up to you all.
I met my boyfriend on a dating app. I met him in person about two weeks after we started talking on the app, then it moved to us texting/facetiming.
I think it’s important to get a feel for the person before deciding to meet, so you don’t waste your time or end up alone with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable. Other than that it’s entirely just when you feel up to it.
I am always so taken aback at how many men want to meet after “Hey, what’s up?” Like who the heck are you???
On the other end of this I’ll get bored after a few weeks of messaging. Usually once we’ve established banter and I notice I’m excited to get a message from them I’ll agree to meet up.
Imo “online dating” doesn’t exist, you don’t know them. Set a real date, that’s when the courtship actually starts. I like meeting someone as soon as possible
This seems like it will vary from person to person. I met my boyfriend on Tinder and I went on a date with him after about 4ish days of talking on the app and via text!
It’s up to you. Personally, I wasn’t going on a date with someone until we spent at least a few days talking. I wasn’t willing to give my time to some random guy just like that. My time is way too precious.