How to become attractive in one year as a young man?

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I’ve always tried the “quick fix” the
“abs in 30 minute” all that but l’ve realised I need time. I want to give myself a year from now until then and see how far I can come. Does anyone have any advice? Niche and common. I already do basic heigine, shower, brush teeth and I have a skincare routine. I’m actually a rower so my fitness is good I’m just not bulky but soon my schedule will clean up and I will hit gym. I will say I can never find a perfect hairstyle. I have curly hair which is a blessing from my parents

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  1. CreatineAddiction Avatar

    You need a gym membership and a program called Stronglifts. And cardio. Good luck.

  2. Oshester Avatar

    Your behavior is a major part. It’s all about discipline in all capacities though. Obviously getting in shape and having good hygiene is part of that. You could curate a “style” that is uniquely yours as well.

    Some of the most important qualities are not physical though, here are some that most women find attractive that are not related to appearance.

    • stability (particularly in emotions)
    • drive (show that you have something big you are going for)
    • humor (the witty kind)
    • mystery (you don’t want to show all your cards to everyone)
    • confidence (see yourself as flawed but also hold yourself in high regard)
    • gentleness
    • supportiveness (positive reinforcement)
    • boldness (but not in a belligerent way. Think things like strong, intentional eye contact)
  3. ShadowyModi Avatar

    Abs are made in the kitchen.

    Don’t listen to all the b.s. out there. Get a good routine (push,pull,legs, for instance) and focus on the important compound lifts. Eat high in protein, eat quality calories, and you’ll look and feel good in no time.

    Rome wasn’t built in a day, but the journey of 1000miles does start with the first step 👍🏽

  4. DigitalJedi850 Avatar

    Attractiveness is not based on muscle bud. It helps, not gonna lie, but it’s not the first thing girls look at.

    One of the hottest two chicks in school back in the day was doing an ‘interview’ for like the school paper or something one day, I was just walking by and overheard these goons ask her ‘what do you find most attractive in a guy’, and without much hesitation she said ‘confidence’. Shit stuck with me.

    Be comfortable with who you are. Don’t be afraid to stand out. Stand up for your morals.