Our 7 year old daughter will have her braces in the next 2 weeks. I never did braces myself, so at first I was reluctant and thought that it’s not necessary especially at this young age. But thinking wisely, I wouldn’t argue that few of her teeths are misaligned so it just makes sense to do it now rather than later.
I tried my best to explain to her in advance rather than bringing her to the orthodontist and suddenly installing braces without her notice. Obviously she objected very strongly due to fear of the look and possible pain.
I imagine delaying the process wouldn’t get us anywhere and the teeth might grow and becomes harder to handle, but at the same time, it really breaks my heart seeing her very hesitant and having to force this onto her. I couldn’t imagine how she will need to endure the pain during the day and how her daily life at school might change for a year or more.
Any suggestions parents, for us both to prepare both physically and mentally?
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They put braces on that young? My kids orthodontist wanted them to have all their adult teeth in first.
I’ve never heard of such a young age to get braces. You have to wait for all their baby teeth to come out
Get some oragel and Tylenol for the pain, and make sure they give you wax (they usually do) to put over any bracket that’s causing irritation.
Have soft foods she likes for the first few days. We did applesauce, soups, and ice cream never hurts.
Emotionally is the hard part at this age. Mine were 10 and could understand the benefit, so I’m not sure if my suggestions could help. I’d frame it as she should be done with braces earlier than her peers, so that confidence should kick in. Maybe show her post-braces pictures, or have her talk to some teens who have finished theirs. Mine had theirs off in November at 14 and are so glad they did it. Some of their friends are just now getting them on. I doubt the health benefits would make her feel better, but it’s easier to take care of straight teeth.
I think what will help is for you to reassure her that she’ll only be sore for a few days and you’re prepared to help with that, and that it’ll be amazing when she’s finished.