Im not good at talking or keeping conversation. Heck even my normal talk becomes gibbrish when i talk a little longer. As a male i need to start conversation to talk women to ask them out but i hate the idea of loving someone just because of their apperence. I need to love their soul first but without talking i cant know them. Please im stuck.
How to get closure without talking?
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stalk their socials thats what women do to other men.
Practice talking more with people.
Honestly, I used to be terrible on the phone and hate making calls as I didn’t like talking to strangers, I ended up talking more on phone to recruiters about jobs who are lovely usually and friendly and put you at ease. It helped me get much better.
I’ve also got better at talking to people since I’ve started working. I’m still shy sometimes but I am usually a lot better.
So just practice with friends or family or maybe say hey to strangers when out somewhere. Start small and expand when you can ☺️
I am a major introvert and not talkative at all. My husband accepts me for who I am. For dating I always chose social settings with activities so there wasn’t so much 1×1 pressure. The person for you will understand you, so don’t overthink it.