Hi ladies, just wondering what others do downstairs especially when anticipating intimacy with someone new for the first time? New as in you’re seeing someone and really like them but haven’t yet crossed the line
Do men like it bare or not? 🤔
Thanks
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Do what feels comfortable for you. If this is your first time ever grooming, I would definitely trim and go to a waxing salon and discuss your options. The options vary, but, personally, I’d definitely start with bikini and butt wax, and work my way in from there. I’ve been doing full front and back since I was like 20 but I’m kind of getting over it, I might change it up with a landing strip
We need to normalise asking partners or potential partners these questions because the preference differs for all men.
The best is Nair which is a hair removal cream! Just make sure to exfoliate the day before! Good luck!
I think it comes down to good hygiene and keeping it tidy, you could just trim it and shave/wax your bikini line if you’re not used to doing anything else and if that makes YOU feel more comfortable, but at the end of the day a grown man shouldn’t have an issue with it, whatever it looks like.
I’ve been getting a Brazilian wax for years regardless of relationship or casual sex or nothing, and now I’m just more comfortable with that, but that is my preference. Yes there are preferences for everyone ofc, but I go by MINE, not theirs lol if someone told me to grow it I’d probably say no thank you.
This is a topic that comes on r/AskMenAdvice and most prefer it trimmed/waxed, if that’s what you are considering. I don’t recommend using razors, though. Just get a trimmer if you want to do it at home.
You should do what you prefer. He’s either on board or he isn’t.
Great question. There really isn’t a right answer here, it’s more about what you’re comfortable with!
Also factors like hair texture/thickness matter a lot as well. If you aren’t familiar with how your hair grows back after shaving or waxing you run the risk of ending up with some pesky ingrown hairs or stubble.
I’d opt for a close trim using a bikini trimmer. Trim the bits that will receive the most ‘action’ closer down to the skin and make sure that the rest of the garden is presentable and super cute. Look at it in hand mirror and handle any spots you’ve missed closer inspection!
But at the end of the day, I don’t think men are judging you on your ‘lawn mowing’ technique as much as you might think. In my experience they’re just happy to be there. Do what makes u feel sexy and confident and make sure you moisturize your kitty kat skin so your hair grows back nice and smoothly.
Good luck and have funnnnn!!
I don’t think you’ll find a heterosexual man on this planet who would mind if you were trimmed down there whether their preference is full unkept bush or completely hair free.
I don’t have a personal preference for myself, so
I usually ask my partners if they do. Pretty much all of them have said they’d be into anything (from none to a full bush) so to do what I wanted.
I give it a buzzcut because it makes it more inviting to eat. Full shave is good for a day but the stubble it itchy and uncomfortable for all. Waxing is an absolute no for me.
I mean, I wouldn’t be too worried about what he expects. I would do what I feel comfortable with, which is basically taking some nail scissors and trimming up all the hair so that it’s all pretty short and neat looking. I like not having to push hair out of the way when I use my vibrator. I don’t shave because that’s itchy. I don’t wax because I don’t need to be hairless. Just trimming things up while I sit on the toilet until I’m happy with how it looks is good enough for me.
I have no idea what „most men“ would prefer, I prefer my bush and if they don’t like it, that’s not my problem.