i (25f ) want to initiate sex more with my boyfriend (25m). i get really shy and over think he won’t want to have sex in the moment even though i know he always wants to! how can i get over being shy and more forward 🙈 thank you in advance !!
how to initiate sex more
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What’s the point of being shy? Worse he can do is tell you another time.
Start kissing him everywhere. He’ll get the message
Kiss him all over, he’ll get it.
I don’t know exactly what he likes, but for me, if a woman plays with my hair and kisses my ear…. It’s a wrap.
Women have it easy!!! Put his hand on your face and kiss it. Suck/lick his fingers. Bite your lip. Kiss his neck. kiss/lick his ear. Run your hands along his hands and arm. Sit on his lap and do any of these things. Grind on him. Eye contact. Kiss his stomach. Tell him things while you kiss and touch him.
Lick his eyeball. Fucking anything works lol. You can do the softer things to see if he’s receptive and build up from there.
Rub the right spot he will take over from there 🥰
Just grab his dick and lead him where you want him.
I will say when u want to have sex think of ur having shower just have shower or bath s£x then maybe u won’t get shy