Recently sober and since then I can’t jerk for even a full minute without feeling like I’m about to finish and needing to stop. Haven’t even tried with anyone else yet because I just can’t last, so I’m kind of desperate for advice.
How to last longer?
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Recently sober and since then I can’t jerk for even a full minute without feeling like I’m about to finish and needing to stop. Haven’t even tried with anyone else yet because I just can’t last, so I’m kind of desperate for advice.
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slow down and breathe slowly, try not to tense up, just relax
Viagra is pretty good, someone gave it to me see how it works for myself, shit is insane, cum once then you will stay hard long after, I think on Saturday night me and a girl I was with during the experiment went for an hour or so, had to keep stopping so she could a drink of water then we went again, good stuff.
If you’re worried you won’t last with a women use your tongue
Just stop. Wait until you find a woman you share unwavering love with. She won’t care.
Totally normal bro — early sobriety can mess with your whole system. Your brain’s like “new chemicals who dis” and rewiring everything. Try edging, breathing deep, and chillin’ on the porn. It’ll balance out with time, just don’t psych yourself out.
Your body has to get used to you not using your means of intoxication anymore. You’ll prolly get better with that, once that happens
I used to last longer due to wanting MORE sex. Hours, rounds… pretty much if you want more and it finishes early, just straight up continue. Your stamina will improve.
Kegel and core exercises are incredibly valuable for lasting longer. Combine that with a real like experience from a sex toy like Fleshlight and you will have good progress with your orgasm control over a period of one year.
You didn’t say how old you are, but there is a high chance of you making mistakes during masturbation, which will make you perform worse in bed, like for example death grip or not using enough lube ( real sex often includes good lubrication for less friction and less discomfort from the constant movement).
Another really, really important part is eating healthy plus hydration and sleeping well. I can’t stress enough how important it is to have it all. You can do everything else perfectly, but if you don’t do the bare minimum right. You will sabotage yourself completely.
Checkout the Rena Malik M.D. YouTube for more advice from a professional. She has amazing content on many topics related to sex for both men and women.
It will get better, much much better til normal again. Did you do Downers mostly? especially Opis?