I’m 21 years old, and I’ve chosen to wait until marriage to be intimate. I know this might seem traditional, but it’s something important to me. The thing is, I do experience sexual feelings, and sometimes they’re hard to control. There are times when I feel stressed or frustrated because of it, and I’m not sure how to handle these emotions in a healthy way.
For those who have made similar choices, how do you manage these feelings without compromising your values? I’d really appreciate any advice or experiences you’re willing to share
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I’m the same age as you, think the same way, and go through the same struggle.
Brother, temptations and desires will always be there—after all, we’re human, and that’s part of who we are. There’s no point in trying to find a way to never feel desire because it will always come. The key is learning how to deal with it and never giving in. In the end, we have to be stronger than our desires. Learn to ignore them, and whenever you feel them coming, find something to do to distract yourself. The most important thing is to never give in.
For religious reasons?
I’m surprised you’re not already married at 21 tbh
Are you male or female? Do you masturbate? Have you examined why you are creating this rod for your back that you will carry into future relationships?
I dont relate, but I have heard that exercising helps.
Masturbating and/or exercising are good ways to cope with these feelings
First off, respect for sticking to your values-that takes real strength, especially in a world that often pressures people to act otherwise. What you’re feeling is completely normal; sexual desire is a natural part of being human, even when you’ve chosen to wait.