TL;DR; My friend forced me to share my location with her. She stalks me constantly, especially to check when I’m outside of the office with her boyfriend, who’s my colleague and friend, and when I’m meeting with my other friends. I want to stop sharing while maintaining friendship
My friend (25F) and her boyfriend, who’s my colleague, had gone through a tough period a few months ago (got back together shortly afterwards). On the day that they broke up she asked me to share my location with her. Which I didn’t feel comfortable doing, however, she was crying etc. and I didn’t want to upset her more. So I’m able to see her location all the time and she’s able to see mine. She’s the first friend I have on Find My, besides her I just have my mom and grandma, which I want to continue sharing my location to.
As time passed on, I grew more uncomfortable to share my location with her because of her constant checking and stalking. Whenever she detects me and her boyfriend going to grab lunch or our location is simply in the same place but outside the office she calls and refuses to hang up, either me or him. Furthermore, she recently opened up about feeling jealousy etc. and even though him and I explained everything and comforted her separately, I feel like this feeling still lingers with her.
I just don’t feel comfortable with her checking it anymore considering the circumstances. Another instance for example was when I wanted to meet with another friend group of mine and not with her, she kept checking my location and messaging me saying you didn’t meet up with me but you’re still with them etc. and did this throughout the night.
She also experiences extreme fomo.
If me and her get on bad terms that means our friend group is doomed and it’s going to affect my relationship with my colleague negatively as well. I want to stop sharing my location in a way that would preserve our friendship.
What would be your advice? What should I do?