how to support sister (15) even though she’s going down the wrong path?

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my (23m) sister (15f) has been getting in trouble at school left right and centre. from making fun of someone with a different accent (especially weird as our mum is muslim and little sister is mixed) to her latest thing of passing around photos of someone in n@zi clothes with “nice c0ck” written under it. i recently found out that she smokes vio a photo on her instagram and an empty carton under her bed when i was cleaning her room. mums basically given up raising her and has left me to do it all which im struggling with as i don’t live with them and have my own boyfriend and daughter to look after. mums and her have a rocky relationship to where they are getting in fights every day and to where mums recorded fights as sister has thrown things at mum. i don’t know what more to do or how to help. sister is on a level book because of her behaviour and her next step will be suspension. she’s only 15 and it feels like she’s throwing away her life and i can’t do anything to help it. any help is greatly appreciated and i’m sorry for any grammar issues. thank you all

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