How to tell if a man is just playing games or just afraid of vulnerability? Is he playing intentionally?

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Ie is he emotionally unavailable or just scared

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  1. Global-Swimmer-488 Avatar

    I would say just be yourself and not think that he might be vulnerable to feel might be misunderstood. At the end of the day if the person who really care will show in the end.

    Be it days, weeks or months they will check on u if they care. If he doesnt even text you or talk to you. I would say that he might be just playing games.

    Not saying all man is the same. But protect yourself i believe that we are all human that deserve respect and freedom of speech and thoughts

  2. spirit_with_no_name Avatar

    Both. Yes.
    He’s afraid of vulnerability and he’s scared.
    Probably not playing games. In my experience, the only men actually playing emotional games are either extremely bored or have way too many sexual options.

    And yeah, I know this is the worst subreddit to say this in. 🤦🏻

    But A LOT of men are afraid of vulnerability. Especially older white men, and younger men raised by them.

    Hey, before you smash that downvote, just know I’m actually trying to help the person who asked.
    And deep down, you know I’m right.

    Edit: Am man. Am also afraid of vulnerability.

  3. Prettychilledoutguy Avatar

    What is playing games ?

  4. BobbyThrowaway6969 Avatar

    99% of us can’t afford to play games lol

  5. Homely_Bonfire Avatar

    You are asking us to psycho analyse someone we have basically no information about. You took some isolated situations that stuck out to you but there is way more to a person so you will run the risk of choosing whatever interpretation you are most comfortable with as validation of your suspicions, rather than getting to whats ACTUALLY going on.

  6. Prestigious-Comb8852 Avatar

    I do not know. I guess you can feel it.

  7. No_Salad_68 Avatar

    He’s choosing the tree 😄