How would you deal the situation if any of your kinky secret is found out by your closed ones?

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How would you deal the situation if any of your kinky secret is found out by your closed ones?

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  1. dm-me-really Avatar

    I think they already know

  2. sara-merce Avatar

    My friends and I are super open about that stuff so they know 😌

  3. Sjodor Avatar

    I’d probably just own it with a smirk and say, “Well… now you know too much”

  4. meg_starlight Avatar

    I’d own it calmly it’s my private life, and if they’re close to me, they’ll get over the shock. No shame in consensual stuff.

  5. AverageSizedWilie Avatar

    My life would probably change abruptly. But I’ve been there before so I’m sure I’ll manage

  6. Pig_Veiny_Benis_ Avatar

    They know, and most of them have seen my dick. So nothing changes? Probably. Lol

  7. rikell Avatar

    My other half knows about my secret kink. And we make jokes about it all the time. Ita one of those kinks that won’t ever happen, and I’m totally fine with that.

  8. surveyor2004 Avatar

    How kinky are we talking? How did they find out? I wouldn’t care about one of them.

  9. jackofhearts_4u2c Avatar

    They would say “so what?” And ask someone a lot of questions as to their motives to why they would out me. But if they outed me to my mom or dad? They better have thick skin. My mother tear you a new asshole.

  10. SlobOnMyKnobb Avatar

    Everyone knows my shit, it sucks but it’s just ignored mostly.

  11. Qoheleth_angst Avatar

    I’d feel shocked that I have a kinky secret but not at all surprised that I’m the last to be told.

  12. SorryPet Avatar

    How close are we talking? I literally wear clothing that is VERY “my kink”-coded lol

  13. Vore_Daddy Avatar

    I don’t have secrets. I just don’t bring it up if it isn’t relevant.

  14. totally-jag Avatar

    You know what, people can’t shame you or make you feel embarrassed about your kinks if you own them proudly. Fuck yeah I’m into that…. it’s hot.

    I mean, I wouldn’t go out and announce what I’m into, but if it got out there so be it.

  15. uneofone Avatar

    I’d have to ask how they didn’t already know…

  16. notdeadwithoutme Avatar

    I would stop doing 😂… Wow😳

  17. Ok_Impress_4342 Avatar

    Everyone is in the know lol

  18. Orsino_1055 Avatar

    OK assuming you live in a society that is relatively sexually progressive, and not where this sort of thing is illegal or seriously frowned upon…

    You’d think, if you’re being circumspect about your proclivities, that people would only find out if they were actively seeking the information (in which case it speaks more about them). If they found out by some sort of mistake… then you’d expect both parties would basically pretend they didn’t know, that being the polite thing to do.

  19. Substantial-Stage-82 Avatar

    I would just come clean.

  20. collarmebluedaddy Avatar

    Not much our friends don’t know. My wife blurted out that she pegs me like a little bitch at a party once and we all just laughed. The bolts in our ceiling aren’t for hanging plants either😜

  21. Blombaby23 Avatar

    I’ve already spoken to my friend about this, I die she has to be the one to come in and take all my straps and plastics before my family enters the house

  22. Additional-Pick5685 Avatar

    idc maybe they can help

  23. Cheetodude625 Avatar

    Most of my kinks are vanilla AF to begin with. I think I’m fine with this.

  24. sugarfreezippo Avatar

    I accept it and hope some of them are into it

  25. midniteconfessions_b Avatar

    My very small group of friends all know about each others kinks. It’s a conversation constantly.

  26. nanikmeme Avatar

    Probably get kicked out the house

  27. hatrix Avatar

    “At least it’s not kids”

  28. HryhoriyOdesa Avatar

    I don’t know how I would deal with it, I would probably be too embarrassed or ashamed, something like this

  29. lostpie_taken007 Avatar

    Would definately embarrass the hell out of me.
    I’m a 19m virgin and my GF lost her virginity to her co worker a few months ago. After her confession I became a Cuckold and he is now her Bull with seven other women that waitress together.
    I have a porn addiction and he knows I love his take on breeding kink and having her dressed up in outfits or costumes and them roleplaying to my scripts.
    The other waitresses humiliate me for being a virgin.

  30. Competitive-Lab-8980 Avatar

    I’d hire a bounty hunter. HURLBAT🔺️

  31. cbrthrowaway2025 Avatar

    My brother and sister in law turned up to a swinger’s event I was at…

  32. kekubuk Avatar

    It is what it is.

  33. insane4you Avatar

    It was … just gotta own it.

  34. audiate Avatar

    Andbody close enough to find out would support me in whatever I dig. 

  35. FormalMango Avatar

    My parents helped us move house years and years ago. I was at work, and they decide to came around a day early to get a start with packing. I didn’t realise until I got home and found half my house packed into the back of a moving truck.

    Mum pulled me aside and said “I found your bedroom things. I packed them away before your father could see them.”

    Then at some point later in the day, dad asked me why we had a dog crate when we don’t have a dog, and mum shushed him and she wasn’t very subtle about it.

    So… they know.

    We all just never talk about it.

  36. Tasty_Leading8684 Avatar

    It actually doesn’t matter. Think about it, maybe not kinks but you already know the sexual stuff about your closed ones.

    What parent doesn’t know that their teenager son is constantly whacking it off?

    What teenage boy doesn’t know that his dad also fantasize about anal sex too?

    What makes it embarrassing is talking about it or during the time of being caught in the act. Otherwise we all just pretend and never talk about it.

    Not related to the point I am making, but this just reminded me of a story about a mom who found lots of BDSM magazines and toys under their daughter’s bed. Angry, she goes to the father and asked him what they should do to punish her. The father replies, “I guess spanking is out of question then.”

  37. fafarex Avatar

    Suck to be them, they are secret has to not embarrase them, not the other way around.

  38. allrevvedup01 Avatar

    ntn wrong. own that sh*t. if anything, they must be curious. mind sharing the secret?

  39. illthrowawaysomeday Avatar

    They’d be disgusted, but not surprised. I’d just own it

  40. HoneyBody- Avatar

    I don’t think any of my friends would care

  41. puzzieeecute Avatar

    i wouldn’t mind tbh, and they won’t either ig

  42. Eclipse_Plaiz27 Avatar

    I had to pretend I wasn’t into something yesterday because my sister liked a song,

    I’d die, like drive to a bridge and just jump

  43. Head_Passage8999 Avatar

    Just ran into this last week.

    A friend’s marriage just ended and I KNOW he’ll be on dating apps soon.

    My wife likes to browse tinder looking for Unicorns for us to play with, and I asked her if we should think about stopping now because of a close friend being on (he also couldn’t keep a secret to save his life). She looked at me, shrugged, and said “eh, whatever. I’m sure they’d find out sooner or later.”

    I love her so much ♥️♥️♥️

  44. Fubushi Avatar

    I’d be surprised. No known kinks.

  45. GenerationAtomique Avatar

    I’d feel bad for the person trying to shame/blackmail me.

  46. Bub_Club Avatar

    I’d play down the secret, trying to make it seem normal, or dismiss it. If that doesn’t work, depending on their level of knowledge on this topic, I would be forced to admit it to them. Not that I’d want to. Maybe then I would stop with the secret, after this new pressure and embarrassment that has been put on me. Maybe gradually.

  47. Beating-My_Meat Avatar

    uh cutting it short they won’t scream or make any sounds anymore