i have long (head) hair, and it’s sometimes hard to gently brush out knots at the back of my head lol
would it be insane if i asked my guy to brush my hair?
how would you feel if I asked you to brush my hair?
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i have long (head) hair, and it’s sometimes hard to gently brush out knots at the back of my head lol
would it be insane if i asked my guy to brush my hair?
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Ask him
Ask him. He’ll find it kinda hot. Trust me.
No it wouldn’t be insane lol
I like to brush my partners hair. Only one of my exes asked me to do it. I was in cloud nine because it was like I was helping to take care of her.
I was sitting in my chair, she sat on the floor in between my legs, lifted up the brush and asked. So I did while we both watched Star Gate: Atlantis.
It was nice. And is a nice memory.
I personally would be really into this! Not insane at all. I’d counter your question to ask if my girl asked me to brush her hair would it be insane if I asked that we do it naked?
My significant other sometimes asks me to do it for her, she has long hair and when she is sick she doesn’t like touching it.
No it wouldn’t be insane. Go for it.
Well, it’s up to him, also I don’t know if you’ve ever had someone brush your hair who isn’t good at brushing hair, but it sucks immensely.
I’d do it if I was ever asked lol 🤷🏻♂️
Please can this be satire? I’m so tired of the “how do you feel about x” posts.
Totally weird. I would not do it. He’s not one of your friends. I’d find it creepy unless it was a one time thing and you needed a specific knot out.
I thought you were a random dude so my response would be “confused and a little afraid”
I love doing it.
Do it. Ask him.
I brushed my girls hair last week, it’s not that serious.
That’s it….? I’m bald so I’ll do it gladly but you better not get mad and please guide me if it hurts.
I’m not doing it in order to get something in return.
I don’t mind. So long as you brush mine. It’s probably as long as yours.
Could be a bonding thing.
-obv not me to you, but these are my sentiments.
My wife loves hair pets. She gets them during streaming shows and movies.
Both my wife and I freely give ourselves to each other and focus on doing things the other really enjoys. It’s a wonderful thing.
I love the idea
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Unless he’s a toxic dude, I think he’d totally be into it. I know I would. Just don’t expect him to necessarily know to start at the bottom of the hair to work out knots. See, I told you I’d be into it. Lol
Ask them, I brush my wife’s hair. I also dye it for her when she asks and I’ll paint her nails, it makes her feel pampered and she loves it
If my lady asked me to brush her hair I’m brushing her hair 🤷🏻♂️
Assuming that we were in a relationship, I’d be down like Webster.
If we were good friends, then it would depend on how she asked. I have a couple of friends who could come at me with a hair brush and say, “I can’t reach this. Can you unfuck my hair for me?” and I would do it as a friend, but I also have a couple friends who could come at me with a hairbrush and say, “Can you please help me with my hair?” and I would think they were flirting with me and politely decline while feeling awkward.
If it was a casual acquaintance asking me to brush her hair, I’d tell her to go find someone else.
It’s a loving, intimate and enjoyable thing. Nice conversation time. It is also a routine that can lead to intimacy. Wasn’t v happy when my partner cut her hair short!
Absolutely not, I love brushing my partners hair for her, it’s very therapeutic and intimate for both of you, highly recommend!
I once did a shampoo/conditioner for my next door apartment neighbor’s hair and blow dried/brushed it for her.
We both enjoyed it. She had really beautiful long straight blonde hair.
I brushed my wife’s hair for years. At first because she couldn’t due to injury, later because we enjoyed the non sexual intimacy. Nothing speaks “Girl” more than hair.
Go for it but don’t be surprised if he does a bad job
I don’t know you, hairy lady.
Yea I would be honoured to have that responsibility asked of me from a partner. That seems like such a simple and sweet thing to do for your girl! I’d like it
I wouldnt like it cause i know it hurts
Woman answering here – I have pretty long hair too and my husband helps me to brush it. He gets annoyed sometimes but I just give him puppy dog eyes. I have really curly hair too and it knots alot, so I only brush it before I shower or if I am going to straighten it after a shower. I try to do the bulk of it on the top and sides and I ask him to do the back where I can’t reach, or to make sure that I got all the knots. My sister in law has even longer straight hair and her hubby (my husbands brother) also brushes her hair and helps her. They don’t have sisters and their mom has always had really short hair. We have sort of trained them into it but they love us and they want to help us. I also think its good because if we have a daughter, he will have to know how to be gentle and brush long hair. I think its one of the sweetest things a guy can do for his girl.