The guy I’ve been seeing on and off for a year got last minute free tickets to a Post Malone concert today in Las Vegas. I’m currently in CA and there is no way I would be able to go, if I was in vegas I think he would invite me. I’m super happy for him and I will admit I’m a little jealous because he met up with a bunch of
friends who are there already and him and I haven’t had the chance to do anything fun together for a couple months now but I know that’s a stupid reason to be jealous but I’m just a girl. Anyway I genuinely hope he has a really good time. I want to show him that I want him to have a good time !
My question is -would it be weird if I Apple paid
Him $ and said something like, “I would love to buy your next drink”.
Guy’s how would you feel if she sent you money wanting to buy you a drink on your night out?
Would that weird you out?
I’m 34f he is 37.
UPDATE:
I sent $40 (because vega$). Made it short like someone suggested. “Next one is on me 😘”
Thanks for the advice guys! I’ll stop overthinking it. 🙃
Comments
Most guys would be happy to see any sort of actual thoughtfulness from their girlfriend.
That’s fucking adorable, buy him the drink.
Send $20 and say next drinks on me.. I’d leave out the love. Also $20 bc my beer at my last concert was $14n
don’t second guess yourself! that’s an awesome gesture and he’s a fool if he doesn’t appreciate it!
I’d smile for ages! do it!
I’d be greatly appreciative of such a gesture
Thoughtful and welcomed.
I’d think that was awesome. Go for it
That would be so nice of you to show that you’re thinking of him! Do it!
This would make me feel awful and I would want to play in traffic………
Seriously why would this be a bad thing?
Awesome idea to show that you both care and trust him.
Glad you went ahead and did it! Awesome idea
As a dude that would be dope.
You thought of him when didn’t have to? And acted on it? You’re adorbs im sure he greatly appreciated that white claw you paid for 🙂
That’s fine just do it
its a nice gesture and I would love it
Wow. Happy for my brother.
I’d personally love that. Shows your thinking about them.. Keep up that energy I’d say.
This is awesome and thoughtful of you.
I personally would absolutely love something like that!
You handled it beautifully
Shit I might have to marry this one is the answer
Seems pretty cool. Makes him think of you for a moment…and happily too!
I would find this touching and pleasing.
This is so wholesome.
As a guy who has been on two dates in the last seven years, the idea of a woman actually chasing me and being worried if I like her or not is so bizarre to my worldview. It would be like winning the lottery for me. It just doesn’t happen.
All of that is to say, yes most guys would absolutely love women to initiate.
Would probably wife you up immediately for something like that
Does he drink? My biggest secret is that I’m sorta allergic to alcohol, when at social situations I just pretend to drink.
U having to even ask if this is a good idea is pretty weird to me. I don’t think any guy out there would be like “eww she being cute and sweet” unless u asked this just to be praised?
“Would opening a door for an old person be considered cringy”
I didn’t drink so that hinders dating severely, you’d be surprised how many women refuse to even give a guy who doesn’t drink or do drugs time of day, I’m dead serious it’s like repellent
That was very sweet of you. How did he respond?
I might ask you to marry me
Awww that sounds cute