I would be like alright about time. Love my kids wish I had them sooner but then they wouldn’t be the one I have now. But best decision at least to me just not financially 😅 life l
interested in: tf?? you better not lock me in some BS kind of deal
gf: i’ll be taken aback first then probs ravage her in bed and then have a heart to heart about it
wife: at this point i can’t say as i’m single for now
Because two women had already said this to me on separate occasions, I’d expect to have the same reaction.
Be polite and change the subject ASAP, then ghost them once the conversation is over.
Both women had said this to me when I was anywhere from 1-3 weeks in a chatting online friendship with them and I hadn’t even met them in person. I recognize BS when I see it. I didn’t want any part of it from then on.
I have a very different perspective on this, I’d be like, “Honey, I wish that could be a feasible option. I can’t walk anymore. It was hard enough 21 years ago. You have a difficult time, too. You’re always in pain. You’re easily fatigued. If you can’t do what I can’t do, we can’t do it”
Interested woman: Majorly freaked out because this is a conversation I would never have approached so soon unless it was a kink thing.
GF/Wife: I’d have a conversation with them about it. I don’t think I’d make a good father and if they’re feeling like they need to convince me rather than me come to it on my own, it’s a non-starter. I’d be flattered, but there’s a lot to work through when I hear it
The fact that a woman I’m into would tell me that is gratifying. I’m not sure there is any greater compliment honestly. Would I do it? I’ll tell you if it happens.
sounds like a trap… i was told to never trust anyone who says “i want to be your friend” which is ironic as thats what AI is now doing (and not telling you they are AI)
The first thing I (35M) said to my now wife (34F) when we met was “you and I are going to make some beautiful babies. You, you’re good looking, and me, I’m dam sexy!”
It’s been almost 20 years together, still no kids for health reasons, but we knew where we felt about the topic from day 1!
That happened, and now my firstborn is asleep on my knee while I listen to a podcast.
Felt like a million bucks when she said it, followed by a great few months
My wife told me this not too long ago actually. She’s said similar stuff before but this was the first time she said it seriously. So we sat down and talked about the logistics. I work abroad and neither of us wants her to go through pregnancy and raising a kid without my support so the plan is I use the next year to get a better qualification while I work in another country, move back home for good and then we can start trying for a baby.
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Basically the title, what would you do?
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It would make me think that she thinks highly of me if she would want to reproduce my genes.
I would be like alright about time. Love my kids wish I had them sooner but then they wouldn’t be the one I have now. But best decision at least to me just not financially 😅 life l
She does. And has.
The pants are coming straight off if she says it again.
I love my kid and watching her grow. Can’t wait for baby no 2.
Im out lol.
I dont want to have children, and I already got a vasectomy 🙂
i would be grateful that she didn’t expect me to have hers
Assuming I’ve committed my life to her, instant turn on
interested in: tf?? you better not lock me in some BS kind of deal
gf: i’ll be taken aback first then probs ravage her in bed and then have a heart to heart about it
wife: at this point i can’t say as i’m single for now
Because two women had already said this to me on separate occasions, I’d expect to have the same reaction.
Be polite and change the subject ASAP, then ghost them once the conversation is over.
Both women had said this to me when I was anywhere from 1-3 weeks in a chatting online friendship with them and I hadn’t even met them in person. I recognize BS when I see it. I didn’t want any part of it from then on.
I dig it. I want kids too.
I’d be down. Would have to have a talk about when though lol
Probably the most romantic thing you can say.
I have a very different perspective on this, I’d be like, “Honey, I wish that could be a feasible option. I can’t walk anymore. It was hard enough 21 years ago. You have a difficult time, too. You’re always in pain. You’re easily fatigued. If you can’t do what I can’t do, we can’t do it”
Interested woman: Majorly freaked out because this is a conversation I would never have approached so soon unless it was a kink thing.
GF/Wife: I’d have a conversation with them about it. I don’t think I’d make a good father and if they’re feeling like they need to convince me rather than me come to it on my own, it’s a non-starter. I’d be flattered, but there’s a lot to work through when I hear it
The fact that a woman I’m into would tell me that is gratifying. I’m not sure there is any greater compliment honestly. Would I do it? I’ll tell you if it happens.
“I already have children, but we can still smash tho”
sounds like a trap… i was told to never trust anyone who says “i want to be your friend” which is ironic as thats what AI is now doing (and not telling you they are AI)
I have gotten her pregnant twice now so
The first thing I (35M) said to my now wife (34F) when we met was “you and I are going to make some beautiful babies. You, you’re good looking, and me, I’m dam sexy!”
It’s been almost 20 years together, still no kids for health reasons, but we knew where we felt about the topic from day 1!
That happened, and now my firstborn is asleep on my knee while I listen to a podcast.
Felt like a million bucks when she said it, followed by a great few months
I’d be quite confused at this point. We have three children already. After the last one, I had a vasectomy with her endorsement.
I’m fused and I’d be 73 even the kid graduated so it’s an easy no from me.
“Get in line.”
You should’ve told me before I got this vasectomy.
“Um, hon, you did already”
She said this but children are expensive and cost a lot of time and both of us are working and studying time is not something we can spare.
Make spider man jealous of all the rope I’m about slanging shiiit!!!
Can we practice for a while first 😂
My wife told me this not too long ago actually. She’s said similar stuff before but this was the first time she said it seriously. So we sat down and talked about the logistics. I work abroad and neither of us wants her to go through pregnancy and raising a kid without my support so the plan is I use the next year to get a better qualification while I work in another country, move back home for good and then we can start trying for a baby.
No thanks I already had them. I’m getting too old for that stuff. Lol
In my best Gump voice: “But you ain’t got no eggs, Lieutenant Dan!”
“Let’s go…”
My wife said this to me.
We have 2 kids.
Worked out pretty well.