But now I dont know if such a journal would be romantic or creepy? 😅
How would you find it if the person you are dating keeps a journal about what you like, major life events coming up, etc pp?
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But now I dont know if such a journal would be romantic or creepy? 😅
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Personally, too much for me. I love a doting partner. But something about documenting it gives me pause
It’s depends what other facts are they keeping. I think it’s creepy to keep personal sexual facts on people. That’s one reason I never kept count, sexually, of myself
This doesn’t sound like an inherently bad to me? I remember one ex had an iPhone note of things I mentioned I liked or ideas we had said together we would like to do. Not everyone has a laser sharp memory, what’s wrong with keeping a record of it? I remember when my ex told me about it I said “why are you so nice?” lol
Not sure why that would need to be a ‘journal’ rather than just, like, a note on their phone, but I’m fine with it either way. I’d rather they remember info about me than not remember it, and I’m not mad if they have the type of brain that requires external tools to help with that (I do too!).
Like another comment said what’s being written down matters, but I think generally it would be sweet rather than creepy. Some people remember things better by writing them down and someone making an effort and caring to remember things about me is meaningful