How would you like your wife/gf to initiate sex?

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Curious how you’d like your partner to initiate?

I just say “I want to have sex with you” and it’s worked great for years – but I am trying to get creative and surprise him as we have a vacation coming up (booked two connecting rooms 1 for kids 1 for us).

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    Curious how you’d like your partner to initiate?

    I just say “I want to have sex with you” and it’s worked great for years – but I am trying to get creative and surprise him as we have a vacation coming up (booked two connecting rooms 1 for kids 1 for us).

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  2. worklessplaymorenow Avatar

    Do you want to play with me? I miss you…

  3. 613_Cam Avatar

    How would you like your husband/bf to initiate sex? Do exactly that.

  4. AuthenticTruther Avatar

    Wake him up with your mouth.

  5. TumbleweedFew230 Avatar

    I want her to just grab my junk and say “I want this now”. There’s not a scenario that exists where I’m going to be like “No”.

  6. RadicalEdward99 Avatar

    Maybe just tell me/show me you’re trying to get down tonight.

    My wife used to give me massages and one time like the ass I am I said “your only foreplay is massages”… like what fucking idiot says that?

    Guess who gets 99% less massages and has a complicated sex life now? Don’t be me.

  7. Wotmate01 Avatar

    Cuddling and fondling works well. Rubbing your butt on his crotch when you “have” to squeeze past him.

    And just generally doing stuff that makes it obvious that you want him and his dick. My ex used to just bend over in front of me and say “Come here and hard fuck me till you cum, I just want to feel you dripping out of me”, and it pretty much worked every time.

  8. cdude Avatar

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  9. No_Salad_68 Avatar

    By being as direct as possible. Either verbally or physically.

  10. Deep-Youth5783 Avatar

    Direct and to the point. That’s the way to do it. You can get creative if you want, and I’m sure he will appreciate the gesture but…direct is what I like.

  11. Defiant_Sir767 Avatar

    Treat him like he’s your favorite snack and go to town. My ex at time would just sit on my lap kiss me all over. Or pin me down on the bed being very explicit and direct and what she wants. You could also say:

    “I want you inside me.”

    “What if we forgot clothes for a while?”

    “Let me ride you.”

    “I’ve been craving you all day.”

    “I’m wet just thinking about you.”

  12. TheBooneyBunes Avatar

    KNIGHT, UNSHEATHE THY SWORD!

  13. chxnkybxtfxnky Avatar

    I would want her to start with little kisses and then into a bit deeper kissing…then tell me to move this into the bedroom and then go from there

  14. WiseDescription3949 Avatar

    I usually send him a text that says “you want some fuck?” Lol just to be funny but also he knows I’m serious. Or through out the day I’ll grab him, tell him let’s do it or just be flirtatious. I also ask him if he wants a surprise which he knows means a bj. That way I can even ask him in front of people if he wants a surprise which is lots of fun. 11 yrs of marriage will teach you just be direct and have fun. Sex is fun.

  15. FastWalkingShortGuy Avatar

    My favorite was when one of my exes would just vault on top of me, straddle me, kiss me, and go, “Mmmmm.”

    All systems go.

  16. djchuy1979 Avatar

    My GF just be saying “drop that d*** off”. What else needs to said?

  17. bored_milleniall Avatar

    Coming to bed in sexy lingerie, smelling of perfume 🥵🥵🥵

  18. chimmycolaa Avatar

    im coming out the shower whistling and BAM! shes on the bed in lingerie, movie type shii

  19. the99percent1 Avatar

    I like those moments where we’re both worn out and tired but she grabs my hand and leads me to the bedroom anyways , coz it’s good to bond with your partner and feel close to one another.

  20. Distinctiveanus Avatar

    Make it extremely obvious. Like say, “Fuck me.” Promise I won’t be offended.