How would you perceive a guy who has never had romantic involvements by a certain age? And what age would that be?
How would you perceive a guy who has never had romantic involvements by a certain age? And what age would that be?
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How would you perceive a guy who has never had romantic involvements by a certain age? And what age would that be?
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I’d probably perceive the same as a guy that’s had a ton of romatic involvements by that same age…because, unless I’m told, I don’t know how many sexual partners anyone—man or woman—has had at any age.
Well, if they have a child, I can safely conclude they’ve had at least one involvement. If they have different children of various ages, then I can conclude at least the number of children.
That’s about it…
I would think it’s none of my business. Everyone starts when it happens for them. I started at 16 and now I’m 30 not wanting any kind of relationship anytime soon. My goal is to go at least 6 months without any kind of romantic relationship and have self control and work on myself.
I don’t really care
There could be a plethora of reasons as to why he hasn’t. There’s no age limit on feelings and boundaries 🤷🏻♀️
Smart.
Past very early 20’s is a bit odd.
well i dont really care..
id pay him a professional adultworker to play the tutorial.
To me that would be 35. Before that it’s quite normal and easy to be focused in studying or building a career. After 35 I feel you are an adult that passed the “tutorial of adulthood” kinda thing
Depends. Some people just have other priorities and have never bothered trying. Which is cool.
If they’ve been actively trying for years and are well into adulthood I’d assume they have some significant personality flaws.
Shouldn’t really be an issue. A close friend of mine (both mid 30s) never has and has never shown much interest in doing. We thought maybe he was asexual for a while but he’s not he’s just genuinely not that bothered. He says if something comes along he’ll go for it but has no desire to actively seek anything out. Can’t say fairer than that really.
Does he look normal or good? “That poor autist is probably weird and lacking confidence and/or communicational skills.”
Does he look fat? “Get your act together, man. Literally everything is on the line here”
3.a Does he look ugly? “Poor guy.” 3b Ugly, but can be saved with contact lenses, gym, toupet, skin care? See 2.
Male virgins raise my eyebrows at 24. No relationships at 26, no kissing at 20
I’m not going to put someone in a box.
I don’t care about the sex lives of other people
With your eyes most likely, unless you’re blind. Then perhaps by hearing
If you are past 30 it’s kind of odd.
How much of it is my business?
Let me ask a deeper question:
On a scale of 0-10 how badly will it affect me if I don’t know about it?
Why would this even come up? No woman has ever asked about my body count in my entire life-that question only gets asked by insecure guys.
I’m 40 and have never had any romantic involvements. I’ve banged fashion models but I’ve never been romantic with a woman or even held hands.
So I’d view them fine because it’s me.
Whomever he is; he is perfect as he is and will always be, simply because he exists. Other people’s opinions of us are none of our business, and we should not concern ourselves with them. Nothing we could ever say or do will change them. Love will find you, perhaps: it’s more important to love yourself. (Yes, I’ve been to therapy.)
I was “in love” with a guy who cheated on me from the start, brought the US Drug Enforcement Agency to my front door, brought the AIDs virus into my bed, and then attempted suicide (on which I intervened, he lived (HUGE MISTAKE, if you stumble upon a suicide in progress: turn around, turn off the lights, close the door and let them have their bodily autonomy.) and then told me he resented me for doing so. After death threats from his family members, the police told me to get the fuck outta there! That was nearly 20 years ago, and the mutha fukka still draws air into his lungs each day, which fuckin’ pisses me off! (BITTER! Party of one, your table is ready.)
So, the moral of the story flower is to be careful of what you wish for: you might just get it.
I really wouldn’t judge them for that. Some people have a shit time dating. Some people are asexual. Sexuality doesn’t determine anyone’s value.
What matters more is are they a good person? Would I call that person a good man?
Smart. By 30.
Many people are blocked feelings. I would perceive him as someone who has too many things on his plate.
I’m a woman, but i find some responses a little dissapointing.
Having a relationship or sex are not requirements in life. Some people want it and others aren’t interested (yet). Some start dating as a teenager some in their twenties, thirties or later, who cares?? Let people live and choose how to live their own life.
Also if a men wants a relationship but hasn’t found anyone, there’s no way i’d judge him for it at all. Ofcourse he could be a bad person but it could also be that he just hasn’t found someone he clicks with.
I would perceive they have their reasons and that it’s none of my business. You don’t have to be with someone to be happy.
Idgaf as a man to other men .
My friends who are just terrified of women I try to help though but I don’t think less of them