How would you react if the people you hated come back ?

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Hey,

Being myself (27M) actually in a mood that put me into a bunch of nostalgia, questions about the past, what i did wrong and good, did i or other people i knew changed, etc.

I wonder, how would you react if someone you hated in your past (like an ex friend or bf/gf that hurt you so much that you had to block it) come back and want to know if you’re having a good life, if anything has changed, how do you feel about your past experience with him/her ?

Like : “hey, it’s been 10 years ago, remember the friend that lied to you in 2015 ? what’s up now ?”

Would you answer ? Do you still hate too much people that hurt you some years ago to talk to them, or don’t you ?

I sometimes want to talk to all the closest people i knew (there are a lot) even if they were toxic to know how their life evolve and what they think know

TL;DR! I wonder if you would answer to people that you hated in the past and come back to ask you questions after years