Im having some serious serious kinks lately that I want to explore but I don’t have a partner rn. Im desperate to explore them but don’t want to just have sex with anyone in order to explore them and be labelled a slut. But Im so fucking desperate to try them I can’t even explain the overwhelming urge I have it’s so insane
Not great – Husband barely touches me despite being in the best shape of my life. Pretty sure he’s cheating. I talk to strangers on the internet for validation these days.
Horrible. I just don’t have the desire anymore. My fiance is such a great partner and understands that at my age and due to my mental health, I no longer have the desire I once had.
i have a kid and work 40hrs a week at a physical demanding job my partner and i. we plan and get excited to but often to tired or are just happy to have a quite minute together.
I have to say. Fantastic! Been married 25 years. Sex is plentiful. My wife’s lingerie cabinet is absolutely stuffed and used all the time. She is the love and light of my life. Truly. I am very lucky and happy.
I’ve developed a lot of trust issues over the years when it comes to that so I haven’t really been interested in being intimate with someone, just taking time to work on myself
Sex is one of the best parts of my relationship with my wife. We still regularly sleep together once or twice per day. I know it may not last forever but we both agree that we are each other’s best sexual partners and it feels amazing to share so much physical chemistry with another person who’s also my wife!
Pretty much just cranking my hog for strangers on the internet. I had several gfs and a wife… still just a bator. On the bright side, I’ve made zero dollars so far… so things are going about as well as I expected hah
I found lube! I never used it before, so now at 41, it’s a whole new world!
It’s so much fun I don’t even miss sex much. Because apart from actual love sex I gotta say it was rarely mind-blowing, often rather underwhelming even.
So fuck it, or rather fuck me, this is fine!
Asked my wife this morning if she wanted to mess around and her response was to roll over and give me a handy. Which was nice but also not what I meant . I wanted both of us to feel good and attractive but she treats it like a chore and I feel like some type of sexual taskmaster and it sucks.
Currently non existent unfortunately. But I had a great run from 2004-2025. Going through a divorce now. I kinda feel done. Sex is great but it is definitely not everything. I will trust the process.
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Pornhub ( my only partner )
No complaints here 😊
People have sex?
I have a lot of book knowledge, but no street smarts
Sir this is reddit..
Pretty damn boring 🥱
Pornhub 4 Life
Im having some serious serious kinks lately that I want to explore but I don’t have a partner rn. Im desperate to explore them but don’t want to just have sex with anyone in order to explore them and be labelled a slut. But Im so fucking desperate to try them I can’t even explain the overwhelming urge I have it’s so insane
Oh, hi mark.
Life support
Is this Tommy Wiseau?
My SSRI’s are keeping me from killing myself but also completely destroyed by libido.
So my life is existent while my sex life isn’t.
I did not hit her. It’s not true, it’s bullshit. I did not hit her. I did nahht. Oh hi, Mark
My what?
It’s a lottery, and I only win when the stars align!
A fantasy.
🫲🏻
Gay in a small high school what is there to even talk about lol.
Non-existent since becoming single 😪
Pretty awful.
Not great – Husband barely touches me despite being in the best shape of my life. Pretty sure he’s cheating. I talk to strangers on the internet for validation these days.
What do you mean?
very nearly quite erotic.
very nearly.
What’s that? Is that new?
I haven’t had sex since October
Bad. Like really really bad. Married and no outlet.
Not good, never get married
What’s that?
You guys are having sex?!
How dare you to assume that i have a sex life..
Mostly oral, which is fine.
“Oh hi mark. How’s your sex life?”
lol what’s a sex life
Horrible. I just don’t have the desire anymore. My fiance is such a great partner and understands that at my age and due to my mental health, I no longer have the desire I once had.
Boring/non existent. And that sucks cause my libido is crazy.
Up and down
What! Where?! I’ve been looking for that for years!
i have a kid and work 40hrs a week at a physical demanding job my partner and i. we plan and get excited to but often to tired or are just happy to have a quite minute together.
Nada..
Oh, come on, Johnny, I don’t want to talk about it.
Better than zero, but pretty vanilla.
My balls are as blue as a cloudless sky.
dead.
Aw it’s confidential
You guys are having sex??
What sex life
The fuck you just called me???
Sex it’s boring for me now
I need a right woman
Mind blowing since I introduced weed
Just like santa, i come once a year.
Sex? Whats that?
Those pencil drawings of Harry Potter characters seem really into it.
So I’d say pretty good.
Oh hi mark
wife is living in abroad for 8 months to take care of family business/isuess . Mrs RIght and Mrs left are getting action though.
Hahahahahahaha
inhales
Hahahahahabaha… yeah, that about sums it up
non existent
I’m HANDsome
Mine’s good. Ny wife’s, not so much.
It’s been really up and down, mostly down
It’s dead Jim.
Not the best… but we are old now
Alright I guess
Handsome
Oh, hi doggy
Danny, you know that’s confidential. Anyway
My solo sex life with my handy dandy helper is great , no complaints
My aunt Flo came to visit for the next week, so it will be a little while
Never started.
Nonexistent, wife never wants it anymore. Good thing there’s porn I guess.
need someone to fulfill it
Hasn’t started yet.
Pretty great. I have an amazing life and sex life.
I’m 25 and never had sex.🙂
Non-existent
Im 36 and didnt have Sex in the last 18 years.
I have to say. Fantastic! Been married 25 years. Sex is plentiful. My wife’s lingerie cabinet is absolutely stuffed and used all the time. She is the love and light of my life. Truly. I am very lucky and happy.
Worst
Non-existent.
You guys have a sex life?
What is a sex life
Not that good
Nonexistent
Ya’ll having sex?
I’ve developed a lot of trust issues over the years when it comes to that so I haven’t really been interested in being intimate with someone, just taking time to work on myself
Awful
I have not got any since the first lockdown
Unsatisfying. In a relationship for 9 years, and our sex life is worse than any other relationship before.
It’s not true, it’s bullshit I did not hit her I did not.
It’s been so long that I’m a virgin again.
Pretty fkn great. Life is good!
Freakiness 8/10
Quality 6/10
Frequency 2/10
Married 6 years w/ 2 kids.
Always bangin the same old bitch
Sporadic with me lady. Regular with my right hand. Thanks for asking, Tommy Wiseau!
Oh, Hi Johnny, I didn’t know it was you!
Non-existent. Next question.
In what context exactly?
Doesn’t really matter at this point in my life as it’s not one of my priorities right now
That’s funny tell another one.
Its coming up to 5 years. Too damaged.
Sex is one of the best parts of my relationship with my wife. We still regularly sleep together once or twice per day. I know it may not last forever but we both agree that we are each other’s best sexual partners and it feels amazing to share so much physical chemistry with another person who’s also my wife!
Ain’t no body got time for that. I’ll wait till it’s privatized.
Pretty damn good.
Feeling sorry for most in the comments RN.
Haven’t been on a date in about 4 years. I take care of my mother with medical conditions. There’s no hope for dating or a sex life for me.
L
Since seperating from marriage?
Amazing.
Start seeing some spider web…🕷
Sad trombone
Not great not terrible
Haha! What a story, Mark!
Oh hai Mark!
My imagined one? Great.
My real one? What real one?
Same like summer. Very Dry
Pretty much just cranking my hog for strangers on the internet. I had several gfs and a wife… still just a bator. On the bright side, I’ve made zero dollars so far… so things are going about as well as I expected hah
Ex gf dumped me so no sex atm but working on meeting new people and willing to develop bonds with whomever I am with befire sex.
My last relationship made me realize I am demi sexual and I need a emotional connection with someone befire engaging in sex.
A friends with benefits works too because there is that friend aspect
It’s like an earnings report: Happens once a quarter
Non existent
what is sex?
I want more
better then yours
Im joking, were all virgins on reddit.
LYNN THESE ARE SEX PEOPLE!
Oh hi mark
Non-existent
[crickets] A sad longing fills my eyes as memories of a distant past rub, cat-like, against the recesses of my mind.
What is sex??????
I found lube! I never used it before, so now at 41, it’s a whole new world!
It’s so much fun I don’t even miss sex much. Because apart from actual love sex I gotta say it was rarely mind-blowing, often rather underwhelming even.
So fuck it, or rather fuck me, this is fine!
Good but intermittent
Uninspired but comforting
Non existent but I’m actually happy with that choice! I focus more on the big picture of life! And improving myself !
I did not hit her. I did nooooot. Oh, hi Mark.
I haven’t had sex in a year, but it’s because I’m in a committed relationship, and we agreed to take it slow. He’s worth waiting for.
I’m terrified of sex so it’s non-existent
So Mark. How’s your sex life?
Never been better. Recently divorced too.
Battery driven
Where?
Shit.
Fantastic. And nonexistent.
After work Monday, I was too tired to jerk off. Likewise Tuesday-Thursday. Maybe I’ll get lucky tonight.
Lonely
Very sporadic
Sex drive is so high these days
Its exhausting haha
Lonely
That’s a thing 😑
What’s sex
Active
Nonexistent
Asked my wife this morning if she wanted to mess around and her response was to roll over and give me a handy. Which was nice but also not what I meant . I wanted both of us to feel good and attractive but she treats it like a chore and I feel like some type of sexual taskmaster and it sucks.
Ask your wife.
I’ll see myself out.
Not great. I was diagnosed with a chronic condition known as Marriage
Im having all the sex I didn’t have in the past 6 years 🫠🫠 can’t say I’m complaining tho.
Currently non existent unfortunately. But I had a great run from 2004-2025. Going through a divorce now. I kinda feel done. Sex is great but it is definitely not everything. I will trust the process.
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